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Topic: Can anyone shed some light please?
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LeoStrength
Knowflake Posts: 4
From: United Kingdom
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted August 22, 2005 05:53 PM
 
For months now I keep dreaming of my ex husband (scary)lolWe have been divorced 5yrs, could understand it in the early months if I dreamt of him, but after all this time? Spoke to my spiritual advisor about it, but he just said send him light as he may be having trouble. Anyone else have dreams like this? P.S.
Of course I did send him light as im a good person (even though i really dislike the man!!) lol IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Moderator Posts: 1301
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted August 22, 2005 10:40 PM
Even though a chapter has ended, do you feel like you have closure?
Does the lesson feel like it has been learned?
Do you have contact with him?
Does he embody something to you?
We go through certain experiences in life to learn from them, and sometimes the learning is a slow evolution, and still causes frustration.
Some people will pop up when I am faced with something that feels similar to the things I had endured when those people were in my life in the first place.. shame, frustration, being misunderstood...... as if the people embody the feeling I am working through.. and their appearance sparks that feeling for me to work through and modify as it relates to my current experiences.
Life is evolution of our personalities, and we see it through the eyes of now.
Can you forgive him or yourself.....?
Just some thoughts.........IP: Logged |
Ra
Moderator Posts: 255
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted August 23, 2005 03:44 AM
Beautifully said.  IP: Logged |
LeoStrength
Knowflake Posts: 4
From: United Kingdom
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted August 23, 2005 09:40 AM
Thank you for your reply PixelPixie.I dont have contact with him myself, but we do have 3 children together, so i dont suppose we will ever have final closure. Yes I have forgiven him, as I understand now, that I had to take this path of which im far more happier without him. Many Thanks xx IP: Logged |
Ra
Moderator Posts: 255
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted August 24, 2005 03:53 AM
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