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From: Calm Blue Ocean, Calm Blue Ocean
Registered: Jun 2003

posted January 09, 2006 06:50 PM         

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Every now and then my ex ( i call him "the" ex, the only one i've loved thus far in my life) he invades my dreams. It especially happens when I stop thinking about him, or when i've found someone new that i'm interested in.

I would think that it was just me dreaming about him, and not him invading, if it didnt' happen that he always calls shortly after I have these dreams. The dreams almost alwasy involve him having sex wiht me, I alwasy resist at first, then he seduces me.

It sounds crazy, but I feel like whenever I'm moving to loving someone else (like currently) he comes out of the woodwork to remind me how much I still love him. Should I just not call him back? I feel like even if i dont' he'll just invade my dreams anyway, which is far more personal. Not surpisingly, hes a pisces.

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From: Somewhere over the Clouds
Registered: May 2004

posted January 10, 2006 03:40 AM         

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It seems that this relationship is deeper than you realise. Did you leave on bad terms, or was the relationship broken off gently? Perhaps if it was broken off badly, this means that neither of you are completely over each other. And you need to reconcile each other, in order to move on with your life.
If you still love you, have a chat to him and see what happens. There is definitely something between you two!

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From: piopolis, quebec canada
Registered: Jul 2005

posted January 10, 2006 09:39 AM         

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Sounds like you need to talk to him
maybe he needs you right now, give him
a call...

Love and Light and Magic to ALL

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From: Calm Blue Ocean, Calm Blue Ocean
Registered: Jun 2003

posted January 10, 2006 01:10 PM         

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There's definitely something very deep between us. WE didnt' really finish, I cut him off because I wanted to love other men, not him anymore, because he didnt' want a relationship with me. We dated almost 5 years ago, but it's still lingering...

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Registered: Jun 2005

posted January 10, 2006 01:31 PM         

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Hello BlueRoamer

If you truly wish to move on, you must change the ending of the dream. He will keep appearing until you make up your mind - embrace or release. Subconsciously, he seems to be the litmus paper by which you are judging your other relationships, and there is certainly a reason for that.

No easy answers here.

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From: Calm Blue Ocean, Calm Blue Ocean
Registered: Jun 2003

posted January 10, 2006 09:46 PM         

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Ra, I'm impressed. I've tried to release, but it doesn't seem to work. Do i need to reengage him so I can release? He's never going to want a relationship with me, and I don't want one with him. I'm not sure what I need to do to move on.

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From:
Registered: Jun 2005

posted January 11, 2006 04:11 AM         

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I couldn't tell you that. Perhaps you will dream of some possible answer, if you wish to. Let us know if you have any more about him?

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