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Topic: Father????
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Lady331
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posted January 26, 2006 02:54 PM
 
Hello Ra, I had another dream with that guy I love, you know..
It was a beautiful day, sun was shining..and he asked me to go with him to his home. So we went together to bus stop. Then the bus #6 came and I wanted to get in, but he said that it's not the one we were waiting for. We sat on the bench and talked, I felt good and he probably felt good too. Although he didn't look happy, he was very serious and didn't smile, I felt like he liked my presence somehow, that he just can't show it. I was smiling and touching his shoulders and suddenly he got closer I got closer and he kissed me. 
That kiss wasn't beautiful at all, because at the moment he kissed me, he turned into my father!!! I was kissing my father! I didn't like at all!!! 
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Ra
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posted January 27, 2006 04:47 AM
Woah, that would be a surprise!  Hello Lady331 I'll have to think about this one some more. Be back soon.  IP: Logged |
freebird
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posted January 27, 2006 07:06 AM
I am not sure but I had read somewhere that a girl likes a man who resembles like his father or brother. She starts getting attracted to that kind of man. Does your boyfriend anyways resemble to your father ? How are your relationship with your father ? IP: Logged |
Lady331
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posted January 27, 2006 07:45 AM
There's something about him that reminds me of my father. I don't know what it is...
But there's also something about him that is quite different from my father. And both are good and bad. 
My relationship with my father is very good, I'd say it's better than with my mother. IP: Logged |
freebird
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posted January 29, 2006 05:18 AM
Lady : I am just going to try on this one.No expert here. quote:
Then the bus #6 came and I wanted to get in, but he said that it's not the one we were waiting for
No.6 Stands for love,art,poetry and beauty. It made me think maybe your dream suggests that you are looking for more affection or attention from your partner.( More creativity) You know your partner loves you and you love him too but just want some lovey-dovey stuff from him. Did you have same feeling for your father? Just more affction or attention. IP: Logged |
Lady331
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posted January 30, 2006 11:15 AM
Freebird,
I really appreciate how you're still trying...  1. He's not my boyfriend.
2. I don't know if he loves me.
3. I love him secretly. I wish my father was stronger, so I could feel protected and save with him.
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Lady331
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posted February 01, 2006 09:33 AM
RA!!!!
Did you forget about me?  IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted February 01, 2006 02:00 PM
Not a chance. Well, you just answered two of my questions ... Does he know how you feel? ... and, Do you like his presence, but just can't show it? Your guy turning into your father isn't necessarily a bad thing, as freebird pointed out. It means something ... some masculine, fatherly aspect is needed here ... or the guy simply reminds you of your father in some way ... or something. What does the number six mean to you? To some it symbolizes love, to others perfection, or harmony ...? IP: Logged |
Lady331
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posted February 01, 2006 02:58 PM
Six means beauty and love... Is this dream telling me anything, like what I should or shouldn't do? 
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Ra
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posted February 02, 2006 03:48 AM
Well, I'm wondering why bus number six was not the one you and he were waitng for. Which bus were you waiting for? See what I mean? I'm not sure exactly how to read it ... what do you feel? IP: Logged |
Lady331
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posted February 02, 2006 11:48 AM
We were waiting for bus #5. I'm sure. I knew that. But when the bus #6 came , I thought we could try this one.  IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted February 02, 2006 01:01 PM
So, the next question, what does the number 5 mean to you? IP: Logged |
Lady331
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posted February 02, 2006 02:15 PM
Five means future and the earth. But I don't think that it matters because he's going home by bus #5 not just in the dream. But for real.IP: Logged |
freebird
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posted February 03, 2006 03:19 AM
Lady... Ra has come to rescue  ....I hope he can take it from here.....Are you shy to tell him you love him ?
Is there a reason to do so ? would give it a thought though....
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Lady331
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posted February 03, 2006 05:53 AM
It's a bit more complicated than it seems.
I'm not sure to use a word "love"...
When I'm with him, I don't feel at ease. We are completely different, have absolutely nothing incommon, have nothing to talk about, nothing to do together. I don't like what he says, what he does.BUT HE'S ACTIVATING SO STRONG AND BEAUTIFUL EMOTIONS IN ME. Like no one ever before. I've never felt that. 
I feel so connected with him, but at the same time so distant.
So what is that???
It was love at FIRST sight. Really first. Since I've met him, I've changed. I've realized a lot of things, mostly about myself. I've become more confident. He came into my life and completely changed it.
When he's gone, I'm dreaming of him.
When he's here, I wanna get closer to him.
When I'm close enough, I habe absolutely no idea what to do. Because I think he doesn't feel good with me either.
I think he's not interested in me. If he was, he would be with me and talk to me.
So I could tell him how much he means to me, but perhaps he wouldn't understand it. Because I don't understand it either.  IP: Logged |
freebird
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posted February 07, 2006 06:34 AM
You have answered your own question I guess....The dream says same thing. quote:
When I'm close enough, I habe absolutely no idea what to do. Because I think he doesn't feel good with me either.I think he's not interested in me. If he was, he would be with me and talk to me.So I could tell him how much he means to me, but perhaps he wouldn't understand it.
I only don't agree from that quote:
If he was, he would be with me and talk to me.So I could tell him how much he means to me, but perhaps he wouldn't understand it.
As for Dream I can just understand that since you both are so different and you don't like the way he is.The sudden kiss
after saying nothing wasn't beautiful as his way to show affection and dealing with you is different.You think that he isn't intserested in you and so you both don't know what to do but actually maybe he feels good with you not as love ( he says no to NO. 6 bus. but still sits with you ) but as friends or something. I have just suggestion why don't you ask him and atleast get some clear answers and so that you don't have to worry about what
he feels about you. OR Just make small talk to know him more. I am also suspecting that he is very active and flirty something more of Aries. You are shy ( Are you a water sign ?) but you are attracted to him. Anyways as usual I am just trying. IP: Logged |
freebird
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posted February 07, 2006 06:36 AM
Keep in touch and don't feel that he doesn't like you. I would suggest that be his friend rather than see him as more of boyfriend material. You would realize his good and bad points. Maybe by that time he would also fall for you or you would get over it. IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted February 12, 2006 05:08 PM
Nice work, freebird.  Thanks.IP: Logged |
freebird
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posted February 13, 2006 06:53 AM
My pleasure  IP: Logged |
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