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Topic: dreams....meanings?
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virgo
Knowflake Posts: 225
From: neverland
Registered: Jan 2004
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posted February 07, 2006 01:36 AM
 
I dont know that much about dreams...But I do trust them. I know they are always telling me something...something thats gonna come....how do you learn to interpret your own dreams..theres too many websites and i dont know which direction i should take.I had one dream last night...I dont know if someone can interpret it for me..or help me figure out what it means...but I've been seeing this guy for two weeks...we gone out a couple times..and he wont touch me or kiss me...nothing has happened yet..he wont even hold my hand.. But he comes to pick me up, takes me to a nice resturant, pays, and still wants to talk to me after, text msges me when hes at work etc....
But I honestly cant tell if he likes me or not...I had such bad luck with guys it suprises me hes still talking to my after the first date..i never been in a relashinship either..im 19..this is all new to me. but anyways I had a dream about him last night..we were in a room together...it was a meeting..and one of his ex was there...and she was talking to the whole room trying to convince him that he should take her back...and im sitting there convinced he dosnt like me...and i look at him and i know its over..the "meeting" is over..we all walk out of there...i walking down a hall and i look back and i see him and i wave and he waves back and hes in white cowboy hat..i dont look back and i keep walking cause i think that hes not gonna come after me..i go through a door...and i feel him behind me..i look back and hes caughting up to me....and than he kisses me..... lol i only wish he would do that in real life...cause he will not lay a finger on me..only at the end of the night when he hugs me....so any idea what this dream could mean at all? lol...thanks. IP: Logged |
freebird
Knowflake Posts: 517
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Registered: Jul 2005
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posted February 07, 2006 06:09 AM
As for the guy seems decent or shy to open up.Are you surpeied by that ???? Is it important for you to hold your hands or show his love physically. I wouldn't genearlize but man don't spend money just like that. Maybe you are just in anxiety that it can't be true. I know to get nice guys it's so difficult. By the way just enjoy the ride....you would soon come to know how much he is into you and whether you are made for each other. As for the dream I am not the best person to analyze it but well The dream says that you are worried about losing what you have found because of past expereinces. ????? but something also tells you that he really loves you. I don't know why but it sounds you are afraid of your own past rather than his. I just want to know whether that did he ever mentioned about his ex- gf ???? Do you know her? IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
Knowflake Posts: 761
From:
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted February 07, 2006 12:01 PM
What I get is that he likes you not love yet he does not know you that well yet. his distance could be an ex maybe pondering or trying to release that all the way before he gets into you. ( thats good) The ex is still prolly tying to be in his life..And to add to this yes men do not spend money like that on a women tht he barely knows unless he likes her... IP: Logged |
virgo
Knowflake Posts: 225
From: neverland
Registered: Jan 2004
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posted February 07, 2006 04:58 PM
thanks you guys...Hes never really mentioned his ex...his last relashinship was a year ago...and he had something with another girl a month ago with didnt work out...but he said he has learned from them....it dosnt look like to me that hes still living in the past... IP: Logged |
pchan33
Knowflake Posts: 31
From: usa
Registered: Jan 2006
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posted February 08, 2006 11:15 PM
Hi virgo, I wrote an article about interpreting your own dreams, which I will post for you here: "Just because we haven't been taught to emphasize dreams as a genuine field for exploration does not mean that they are not one. Dreams are analyzed for their meaning or are taken as portents, but never are they taken as real events" (don Juan Matus). People spend almost half of their lives sleeping, dreams matter! REM sleep (where dreaming occurs) is essential. Everyone dreams, but not everyone remembers their dreams when they wake up. "This barrier (forgetting dreams) is a psychological one created by our socialization, which puts a premium on disregarding dreams" (don Juan Matus).
There are a many theories about dream interpretation, but I have my own, as follows: Let's say you dream about a pancake. So you get a book on dream interpretation, and you look up pancake. Guess what? The author of that book does not know you, and therefore does not know what a pancake means TO YOU. The interpretations in books, while helpful, are just general ideas. For example, a person on the Atkin's diet (which I am totally against, by the way, but I digress) is going to think about pancakes differently then a person who works at a diner and serves pancakes to people all day long. For the Atkin's person, a pancake might represent forbidden desire, while the diner waitress might see a pancake as a symbol of subserviance.
To make sure that dream interpretations are personal and apply to you, you can do them yourself. First you need to record your dreams (either written or typed) as soon as you wake up. The more you record, the more you will remember as time goes on. Sometimes when I wake up all foggy, I forget what I dreamt, but only temporarily. I go about my day, and then I 'll see some random object, such as an old bicycle or a stuffed animal, and it will trigger a flood of memories of what I dreamt.
For instance, the other night I dreamt my parents got a pool to keep tigers away from our house (it was my mom's idea)...and the next day when I woke up, I was driving (in real life) and there was a tiger stuffed animal on the dashboard in the car beside me. That's called Synchronicity, according to Jung.
Once you have a written record of your dreams (do this for about a month), go back and read it. Look and all your dreams. There may be some things in there that you remember. As you get used to writing down your dreams, you will be able to remember more.
Now for the analyses: write a list of recurring objects, ideas, people...if things are recurring, your subconcious is trying to tell you something. ******************************************
by the way, I'm also a virgo 
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Ra
Moderator Posts: 803
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted February 09, 2006 04:35 AM
Hello virgo  I agree with the others, that the dream is about your fears/anxieties concerning this issue with the guy. I don't really think the ex is an issue, and in your dream she simply symbolizes your fear. I waited much longer than that (  ) before I held my wife's hand, or put my arm around her. Yeah, I was a slow learner, without much experience. (I took her to see "Star Trek: The Wrath of Khan" on our first date ... I thought everybody liked Star Trek )
 Anyway, maybe he's not so bad. Have you ever tried to hold his hand?  IP: Logged |
Ra
Moderator Posts: 803
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted February 09, 2006 04:35 AM
pchan, great stuff! IP: Logged |
pchan33
Knowflake Posts: 31
From: usa
Registered: Jan 2006
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posted February 09, 2006 08:51 AM
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