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hippichick
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From: san antonio, texas
Registered: Jan 2006

posted February 22, 2006 02:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
Hey, ya'all!
I have heard and read that when you dream of a loved one who has passed and the loved one comes to you in a dream with peace, love, etc., it is just that, it is really them, their souls coming to us to make contact. But what about when the dream is not loving or peaceful? My late huband took his own life 5 years ago this July and I frequently dream of him coming back, not from the "dead" per se, but he is all of a sudden there, in my life again, trying to push his way back into mine and our daughter's lives, trying to take what I have, financially, etc. (and I acknowledge in the dreams that he had passed.) The general "energy" of the dream is not good, real low emotions, fear, etc.
What are these dreams trying to tell me? My 18 yr old daughter says that "he", or the thought of him still terrorizes me from beyond, as he was a very emotionally and verbally abusive alcoholic.
What do you all think?
All replies appreciated!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Ra
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posted February 23, 2006 03:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ra     Edit/Delete Message
Your daughter is right on. It is just that, your thoughts of him, that manifest in the dreams. It is not him.

Before you sleep, think of these dreams, and change them. Transform them. It may sound cliche, but visualize these dreams bathed in light, the light destroying the negative energies. Then imagine that his presence doesn't bother you, that he has no effect upon you, that you are in control. Truly imagine this. You may not want to, but pray for him. I do not know whether or not you can forgive him, but at least pray for him. Just a short one. Wish guidance for him, and watch him turn and walk away, forever.

These dreams will stop. Give it a little more time. You went through a great deal, and it will take time to properly heal, you know?

That's what I think.

Walk in Peace

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