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writesomething
Knowflake Posts: 416
From: meet me in montauk
Registered: May 2006
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posted June 25, 2006 02:06 AM
 
i had a dream last night i was with the one i love,
i was at the door, and he walked in and i was wearing these older woman's girdle....my body looked flabby, and i was uncomfortable looking at myself in the mirror, and he starts walking in and i sort of cringe to what hes thinking...worried he thinks i look fat, ugly, disgusting...
anyway...he lays on the bed, and my back is facing his face, i dont want to turn...im still standing up...by the door, uncomfortable... he calls for me to lay down next to him...i turn and he grabs my arms and i fall on the bed, romantically...
and he starts grabbing my face,
and kissing me,
and we sort of try to breathe the moment in as strong as we can, and we kiss again... then i woke up... any insight would be appreciated... thanks ------------------
"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit" "Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation" -Khalil Gibran IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
Knowflake Posts: 248
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Registered: Apr 2006
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posted June 25, 2006 06:08 AM
I'm wondering if you feel self-conscious in real life? Also, whether your man makes you feel good about yourself (ie attractive and wanted) that you can forget any self-consciousness? Again like your other dream it sounds as though he is the one more 'in control' of things, but in a good way maybe? I could be way wrong, but if that was my own dream that would be how I would think of it. Does any of that sound right/wrong?IP: Logged |
writesomething
Knowflake Posts: 416
From: meet me in montauk
Registered: May 2006
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posted June 25, 2006 07:51 AM
well ive been feeling insecure about what he thinks of me since we dont talk anymore, worried i wasnt enough physically? you know how that goes, im pretty confident in general, but have some insecurities...he does make me feel free around him, he made me feel like i could look like anything and he'd still want me....he seemed to really look past my skin, though he would tell me im beautiful a lot and i should never wear makeup....where do you see the control theme in this dream? it was like he didnt even notice i was wearing a girdle, and looked flabby...he was just acting "normal"...wanting me to be next to him....he didnt understand why i was standing up uncomfortably... ------------------
"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit" "Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation" -Khalil Gibran IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
Knowflake Posts: 248
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Registered: Apr 2006
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posted June 25, 2006 06:17 PM
Hmm, I see! I thought it was interesting that he initiated the romantic action (that's why I thought there was a similarity to your other dream, he is the initiator, the one who 'drives' things)... sounds like it could also be that he encourages you and makes you feel safe?IP: Logged |
Ra
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted June 28, 2006 03:06 PM
Hello writesomething  It could be that you are wondering why he is no longer showing interest, at least subconsciously. The dream suggests it is not because of your physical appearance. Perhaps it would be easier if that were so. The dream suggests that the issue may not revolve around what he thinks, but rather what you think, or how you think, or how you perceive the issue. You said "I was uncomfortable looking at myself in the mirror" ... if this is not about your physical appearance, and is symbolic of something else, what could it be? An attitude? A personality trait? Some other aspect of yourself? Looking in the proverbial mirror is often a difficult thing. What do you think?  IP: Logged | |
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