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posted July 13, 2006 05:24 AM         

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Not too sure how to interpret this. Two nights in a row I've had dreams that involve what I would consider to be something like 'diminished' phallic symbols... In the first one I was in a sexual situation with two gay men; I didn't have sex with them though, and didn't see them naked either, but I did have a sense that their penises were very small and short, like really tiny... And in the second dream it was about a twist-up eyeliner (Revlon Colorstay to be exact) - I was twisting it up to use it and was disappointed to find that I couldn't twist it up to a long length as there was only a stubby little bit of it left... I'm not sure if this has a sexual meaning or if it means something else, to do with a lack of power maybe? OR that I can't get what I what? Something is disappointing? I can't seem to relate it to anything!

Any ideas?

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posted July 14, 2006 04:34 AM         

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I would have asked you the very same things ... I'm not sure if this has a sexual meaning or if it means something else, to do with a lack of power maybe? OR that I can't get what I what? Something is disappointing?

If you cannot find an answer within those ideas, I'm not sure what to tell you. Perhaps you are completely unaware of, or in denial about, whatever this symbolizes at the moment.

Maybe someone else will have a better idea.

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posted July 14, 2006 07:13 PM         

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Well I've thought about it some more, and it could refer vaguely to any number of things... the big thing in my life at the moment is that I'm frustrated in my living situation, finances, and now that I think of it I don't feel as though I don't have much sexual attraction power at the moment mostly because I just feel ungroomed and yucky (need a hair appointment, etc)... but there is nothing I can do to immediately improve any of that situation. I guess all those things are disappointing... disappointed in myself? Also I have been feeling vaguely depressed because of these things and also having a return of my chronic fatigue... and I know that's the case because I have a low sex drive at the moment (only being depressed would do that to me). Would that make sense in regard to dreams like these?

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posted July 15, 2006 04:28 AM         

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Yes, that makes sense in a general kind of way, at least to me.

It's hard to say what the first dream is about with the info you gave ... was there disappointment? How were you feeling about being in that scenario?

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posted July 16, 2006 04:45 AM         

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Yes, although a sense of frustration more than disappointment I would say. I do feel at the moment as though I am frustrated, can't get where I need to be. So I think it's starting to make sense.

A funny thing, I'm starting to get the hang of figuring out my dreams a lot more... I had the most odd dream last night that my boyfriend brought home one of those fragrant things that you put in the toilet! I was so happy at his little surprise, because it made the drab bathroom so much more beautiful... the fragrance and even the colour of it was so uplifting and pretty... and he had been so thoughtful and caring in bringing it home for me. When I woke up, I thought how weird to dream about such a thing. But then I thought about the feeling in the dream and I got it... he has been the thing lately that brings beauty into my life and he has been making me feel so loved... Funny that my dream reflected that in such a strange way!

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