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Topic: my girlfriend dreamt of being murdered 3 times in a week
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carlfloydfan
Knowflake Posts: 271
From: maine
Registered: Nov 2005
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posted July 30, 2006 09:25 AM
 
twice she remembers the murderer, a big black man. the third she does not remember. all in a week span! I wonder what this could mean? I think it symbolizes change, but why the same murderer and all of them happening at her current age.IP: Logged |
carlfloydfan
Knowflake Posts: 271
From: maine
Registered: Nov 2005
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posted July 30, 2006 06:28 PM
she told me more: black people gathered waiting for a kind of boss, when he arrives, clap clap everybody and he sees me and it happens that that guy hates white people and chases me, running after me with a gun.it lasts a long time, i manage to hide myself,
he finds me, lot of stress, finally kills me.
for at least two of them
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Ra
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted August 02, 2006 05:34 AM
Hello carl  Yes,perhaps change of some sort. The murdering big black man could signify that something in her life is amiss, although she may not be fully aware of it yet. He could also reflect certain negative attitudes/prejudices/thoughts of hers wich are doing her harm, unawares. Or she could be feeling as if part of herself is being destroyed in some way, or she may be suppressing some "dark" emotions which are tryin t surface. Whatever the underlying issue is, it is causing her stress, at least subconsciously, and the dream indicates that a change may be necessary. What has happened in the last couple of weeks that has cause he a lot of stress/anxiety, and makes her want to "hide" (perhaps emotionally)?  IP: Logged |
carlfloydfan
Knowflake Posts: 271
From: maine
Registered: Nov 2005
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posted August 05, 2006 05:12 AM
she has lots of worries. she is going to england to teach kids french. maybe she is overly anxious of this. but she is aware of this. wondering how she can deal with a distance relationship to is maybe the route of her anxiety, she loves me very much and is committed.I don't think its racist oriented. she loves other cultures and has been to mali and love it there and also the people and one of her best friends is black. I think its either copign with me being far away, her travels to england or..maybe a little stress stemming from daddy. though that last one isn't the case. I wonder what changes she may need to make. and how I could talk to her in away to find out what she needs to change so I can help her. I want to help her. but don't know with what. hmm. what do you think? IP: Logged |
D for Defiant
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Registered: May 2006
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posted August 05, 2006 01:45 PM
carl,   ------------------
May not be able to get back to you...appreciate your say nevertheless...D IP: Logged |
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