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Topic: these dreams all share a theme, please please help!
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OzMeg222
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posted August 25, 2006 11:10 AM
 
I dream about this certain man quite often! I've had a lot that seem to run to the cooking theme but none of my books on dreams can seem to help.
The first one I had (on this theme, not counting all the others lol) was he was cooking breakfast for me, bacon specifically, on the stovetop. I was standing with his mother in the kitchen and asked her if he could actually cook.
The second was we were in our own place (which doesn't exist, we don't even live together) and he was cooking us a roast lamb or beef for dinner and he wanted it to be perfect. He wouldn't let me help he wanted me to sit at the table with a glass of cabernet sauvignon.
Last one I can vividly remember (theres been more on this theme that I can't recall right now) was he was cooking a bbq for us and our friends and he looked so happy and relaxed. Everyone was happy it was summer and we were all outside in my back garden.
Maybe I just really like guys that can cook tho I have no idea if this specific one can! Does anyone have any ideas why this theme keeps popping up???IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted August 25, 2006 02:04 PM
Hello OzMeg, welcome  I'll give you some thoughts just as soon as I can. Something is definately cooking:   IP: Logged |
OzMeg222
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posted August 26, 2006 02:16 AM
lol! It would be most appreciated, thanks.IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted August 29, 2006 03:32 PM
The kitchen, and cooking, can mean several things. In this case (or these cases ) I am prone to think that we may be dealing with some sort of emotional need, or perhaps a kind of emotional completion or complementary dynamic that he has with you, or could have.What is your relationship with this man? How well do you know him? Are you attracted in any way? Could your subconscious be telling you that he may be able to fill your emotional needs?  IP: Logged |
OzMeg222
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posted August 30, 2006 03:00 AM
We have been been off and on together since january, just casually and mostly just physically.We don't know each other very well, I put up walls with him and he seems to do the same thing with me. I am unbeleivably attracted to him! We've never seen each other without being completely into each other, even when we've agreed we can't keep things going the way they have been. I would love to connect with him emotionally but I don't think it can happen although he is a very sweet, honorable guy. I just don't think he likes me that way unfortunately. Before the cooking dreams started I had a very vivid dream about him I still remember clearly. We were stuck upside down on a rollercoaster and I was feeling kind of afraid and holding onto the harness. Suddenly I let go and held his hand and wasn't scared anymore, just exhilarated. Do you think the dreams are related? IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted August 30, 2006 04:22 AM
They certainly seem to be. You know, a woman's perspective on these dreams might prove helpful ... I feel like I am missing something. Feels like we're pretty close, but something isn't quite right. Can anyone offer ideas? IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted September 20, 2006 05:07 AM
OzMeg ... how are things going?I'm going to give your dreams another go. I do not like to leave things unresolved if it can be helped. IP: Logged |
OzMeg222
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posted September 20, 2006 06:38 AM
Yay! Thanks Ra!Had another dream about him last friday night. I dreamt I was in a car w my best friend, my ex, his new partner, my kids and my best friends kids. We stopped at a large double story house with a large pool in the front garden. I thought I saw him and thought he was ignoring me but he went inside and came out onto the upstairs balcony. He did a dive-bomb into the pool then swam over to the edge and began to splash water on me. I don't mean a little bit it, there were waves of it. Lol. It annoyed me actually. That was the new dream. I haven't seen this guy for 6 weeks but for the last 4 weeks he's been contacting me on the weekends. Its been late at night after he's been at the pub though so I wasn't impressed. I sent him a text message last night just to see if he'd reply sober and he did. He wanted to catch up but didn't want to drive 50kms to see me. Don't know where I stand with him in reality, these dreams don't help either! IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted September 23, 2006 02:41 PM
No, these dreams don't help much, do they?!In this latest dream, the pool could represent your personal sub/unconscious. Energies from the unconscious often manifest as emotions, and emotions are often symbolized by water. So, perhaps the dream reflects how he is playing with your emotions? Probably not intentional on his part, but confusing to you nonetheless. I suppose this could tie in with the previous cooking dreams, which I speculated could have to do with emotional energies/needs. In fact, taken as a whole, all of these dreams could reflect emotional confusion over this issue. Being with him makes you feel "exhilarated", but you are unsure about deeper levels anent the relationship. What do you think? IP: Logged |
OzMeg222
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posted September 23, 2006 06:14 PM
I'd say you're probably right, Ra. Thanks.Stupid thing is I had a dream thrursday night that he was holding hands and flirting with another girl in front of me. I pretended I didn't even notice in the dream. It made me feel sick and affected me all day friday. Sure enough I see him friday night, we ignore one another and I do what he did in the dream. All flirty with another guy. He tried to ring me later that night. Think maybe I was trying to hurt him before he hurt me. Talk about self-destructive! No dreams since though. IP: Logged |
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