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Topic: Protecting my boyfriend
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WaterNymph
Knowflake Posts: 2260
From: London, UK
Registered: May 2005
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posted September 21, 2006 07:29 AM
 
Ok this is my first time posting here, so I’m not quite sure how this goes.Alright, it starts off with me staying over my bf’s house. But it doesn’t look like his house. It’s in a really horrid neighbourhood, and his doors and windows barely lock. I felt really unsafe in the house, like someone was about to barge in and hurt us…especially since it was late at night. Anyway he didn’t seem too concerned, which is the norm with him. I kept telling him to lock his door, as it was too heavy for me to close, so finally he half closed it. But the back door was left open. Again…I did not feel safe at all. After this is sort of a blur…next thing I remember is a few friends of ours were over, so I asked them to help me close the doors, but we couldn’t. for some reason we were using a nail and hammer to shut it - the house was really old and warn out. Anyway, these men who were huge were trying to break in. my friends and I panicked like crazy, trying to lock the doors - after a short struggle, they left. I pleaded with my bf to come and stay with me, as I feared for his safety…but he refused. I felt he didn’t want to come, cause he didn’t want to depend on anyone. Anyway, out of fear, I left with our friends…after my bf convinced me his home was safe ( not that he would be safe ). Next thing I know, he was attacked in his home and was in the hospital. I was so mad at him…he was being so stubborn. So I broke up with him in the hospital ( I know harsh! ), unless he agreed to move in with me. He didn’t get it, that we had broken up…acting like I was overreacting. I ignored him and left. *edit* IP: Logged |
Ra
Moderator Posts: 1326
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted September 22, 2006 01:57 PM
Hello WaterNymph, it is good to have you here.  I will give this some thought as soon as I can.  IP: Logged |
WaterNymph
Knowflake Posts: 2260
From: London, UK
Registered: May 2005
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posted September 25, 2006 08:28 AM
Much appreciated Ra  btw I decided to shorten it, as the important bit was the beginning.
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Ra
Moderator Posts: 1326
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted September 27, 2006 12:49 PM
This dream could reflect aspects of your relationship. I'm not sure yet, so let's start with a few questions ...Do you feel unsafe or unsecure about the relationship? Are you looking for a new direction for this relationship? Do you feel as if you are not being taken seriously? IP: Logged |
WaterNymph
Knowflake Posts: 2260
From: London, UK
Registered: May 2005
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posted September 30, 2006 11:04 AM
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Do you feel unsafe or unsecure about the relationship?
Never thought about it before…I do feel secure. I rarely feel secure about anything, but this is an exception. quote:
Are you looking for a new direction for this relationship?
Maybe…again, not something I think about too often. But…now that you mention it, yes I do. quote:
Do you feel as if you are not being taken seriously?
Yes…but everyone’s like that with me. I don’t take myself seriously…
Sorry if my answers are annoyingly confusing 
btw dreams involving me shutting the door, and keeping someone out, keep occurring. Any idea..? IP: Logged |
Peri
Knowflake Posts: 1632
From: Kyiv, Ukraine
Registered: Dec 2003
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posted October 01, 2006 10:19 AM
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dreams involving me shutting the door, and keeping someone out, keep occurring. Any idea..?
Seems like you are shutting yourself to someone? hey Ra IP: Logged |
WaterNymph
Knowflake Posts: 2260
From: London, UK
Registered: May 2005
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posted October 01, 2006 10:41 AM
Nice, thanks Peri…I’m prolly emotionally locking someone out - no idea who tho..hmmm 
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Ra
Moderator Posts: 1326
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted October 11, 2006 04:13 AM
Or perhaps you are locking out something about yourself. Perhaps there is something with which you would rather not deal. hey Peri IP: Logged |
Ra
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted October 18, 2006 01:03 AM
Maybe something is "following" you, some past experience/issue/emotional business which is unresolved and has "followed" you into the present. This would be something which is fear-based, and which perhaps your boyfriend helps you to diminish. Perhaps it is the past insecurity?Just some thoughts... IP: Logged |
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