posted September 25, 2006 01:11 PM         

Anyway in the dream we were talking on the phone and agreed to meet at this little laid back bar. When I walked in there he was sitting and he was the firts person I saw. Walking in front of me was two females one looked like an ex of his and her friend. When he saw me he became uncomfortable but he was nice to me.

Anyway we talked where he was sitting and then he got up and we moved to another area at which he took my hand and sat down with me things were very romantic and comfortable. It seemd like it was time to go or something and he put his coat on and jut left never said goodbye just disappeared sort of. SO Igot on my coat and left.

For some reason I was riding a bike as I got on my bike he rode his bike over to me and said where are you going, I said home he was like why hang out with me and my friends some don't go. So I stayed and hung out in the lot and chatted with him and his friends and then I woke up.

posted September 27, 2006 02:09 PM         

Yes, there could be an astral aspect to the dream, but there could also be a symbolic overlay. Let's look at some possible symbology and see if it makes any sense.

The bar scene could suggest that his attention has not always been completely upon you, that there are issues of his that have gotten in the way (two women in front of you/he became uncomfortable)(those two elements not necessarily related). Yet, conversely, there have also been good areas in the relationship (moved to another area/romantic and comfortable). It could also be suggested that there is unfinished emotional business here (never said goodbye). And sometimes a bar is just a bar, but it can sometimes suggest that an issue is not quite based in reality, that it may be more of an escape or even an illusion. Then again, it can also simply symbolize a meeting place. I don't know which, if any, apply to your dream.

The bike scene could suggest that you are both now making it under your own power, separately, and that perhaps this is good for your inner balance. But it's not easy. He has an influence on you (hung out with him and friends), and perhaps you subconsciously hold on to hope. Perhaps his uncertainty causes you to feel uncertain and confused, and the unfinished emotional business doesn't make things any easier.

Does any part of that make sense to you?