posted December 26, 2006 09:16 PM         

Since my sisters passing in 2005, I keep having dreams with her in them. They are all good dreams. We talk, laugh, cry but we are always walking side by side and then I find myself standing alone and when I look around for her she is fading away.

posted December 30, 2006 04:12 PM         

If you feel that you need to let go, then perhaps that is it. But a year or two is not much time when it comes to the passing of a loved one, and I don't think anyone would expect you to "let go" in that short of a time, including your sister. It could be, however, that your sister is helping you to do that very thing.

She loves you, and she is letting you know that she is still with you, and that she is okay, and she may be using the "fading away" as a technique to acclimate your subconscious/conscious mind to the energies, the feelings, of "letting go". She is patient, and time is one her side, so don't worry about letting go ... it will happen naturally, in your own time.

How do you feel about that?

posted January 01, 2007 08:01 AM         

And I love her too. I just wish I was able to convey this to her in life before she was taken from me suddenly.