posted April 06, 2007 06:36 AM         

2 bright and crystal dreams in a week:
something about past again...

1st one:

My collegue from work and I are on the drink. It is Sunday
I see calendar date: 17,18,19.
I congrats my collegue on his birthday, and he said it is not 19th, it was yesterday on 18th.
He is born on 18th december.
In same time after that I get message from my EX.

2nd one:

My parents and I met my ex with her parents. We all eat together, she is trying to say something but like she has some burden.

Ra, can you explain? Are dreams telling me that my PAST is not over? Some contact? This last 2 months, it seems that all dreams follow some pattern.

posted April 07, 2007 01:51 AM         

That first dream seems awfully familiar ... did you post it before?

Dreams like this that involve an ex often indicate unfinished emotional or psychological business. This does not necessarily mean that there will be a reunion in order to finish this business, just that there are still attachments, things to get over and to reconcile, mostly with self.

However, with these two dreams I get the feeling that something has been missed, that you have missed/overlooked something about her or the past relationship, or the reasons for the break-up, or circumstances surrounding it.

How do you feel about that?

posted April 07, 2007 02:05 PM         

And thx for reply :-)
I post first dream in last post, but I didn't get answer because I asked another question after that post.
Circumstances are familiar and reason of finishing this relationship, that was not wish.

Ra, there is another problem to this...year ago, when I had emotional burden bigger than ever, and when I wish to reach to her, I never had this dreams.
Now, objective, and realistic because I got info around New Year that she got married (reasons unknown), I dreams such dreams from February. It is silly on one side.

Believe it or not, I had another dream last night...her again.
I met her mother on steps of her building, and I askedabout her. Her mother just said that she is not OK.
This is annoying Ra....I wish I could know meaning of this dreams.
3rd dream in a roll, and in all of them, she is crying, having burden or not feeling OK.

Ra, what are this dreams saying? From your experience and knowledge, am I dreaming future (like before) or is this only my subconsious wishes?

posted April 11, 2007 04:08 AM         

If these dreams are about yourself and not about her conditions, then we are dealing with the remaining emotional/psychological strings, the unfinished business, on your end. In that last dream, you are removed from her, she doesn't actually appear, only her mother, and 'mother' is symbolic of emotional ties, all that is left. See what I mean? Perhaps instead of her, you are "crying, having burden or not feeling OK." ... at least symbolically.

How do you feel about this?

posted April 11, 2007 09:21 AM         

Well it has some logic Ra, I agree. But why I don't see her happy Ra then?
Why when I was feeeling bad 1 year ago, I haven't dreamed such dreams? Why now, when I feel good and looking toward future?

What you say about that dreams with calendar dates, 18,19 and her message?

Appriciate your insight Ra and hope for another quick answer again

posted April 12, 2007 01:02 AM         

Why don't you see her happy? Either you are psychically picking up on the fact that she is unhappy, or this is a reflection of your own mind, a subconscious desire that she only be happy with you. Or maybe it is something that you are concerned about.

You didn't dream of her when you were feeling bad because she was in the forefront of your thoughts, in your conscious awareness. She appears now because she has not been in the forefront of your thoughts, she has been existing within your subconscious, where dreams are made. So, now that you are ready to look toward the future, your subconscious mind is indicating that there are still strings of attachment of one kind or another with her. I think it simply means that you have not yet let go completely, regardless of what you consciously think.

Does that make sense?

How do you feel about this?

posted April 12, 2007 04:49 AM         

But also it is strange. I think you remember some of the dreams I had this last Autumn and this February....they were predictions of some events that occured. I think time can only show are this last dreams, like you said above, or predictions...I had this strange feeling for months that this story is not over. i just hope I am not having illusions.