posted August 13, 2007 10:36 AM         

i know i have been troubling you a lot with my queries but i have been dreaming so many wierd dreams!!!...or maybe i just remember much more

i realised that i normally dream of things i have been thinking of..like last night i was thinking of my ex...long complicated story..we saw each other for barely 2 months....10 years ago...after that we have both tried to contact each other indirectly to get back but when he contacted me i was in a relationship and so said no.....subsequently when i expressed that i want to get back he had started liking someone else.

anyways, i'll get to the point. i dreamt that i have gone to his place with my parents. my parents want to subtly bring up the topic of marriage with his dad. his dad is there somewhere in the background in my dream. his house looks like a mess(i think it looked that way in the dream because i always imagined it to be not in the best of shape since theres no one to look after it. his parents are divorced. he stays with his dad. since there's no woman in the house, i just feel it might not be well looked after...just my assumptions )
ok, i'll continue...my parents are scrutinising his kitchen and i'm really embarrased coz i feel that thats a giveaway for the purpose of our visit. i sense my ex realising this.

all the above i think was more or less my thoughts playing out in my dream. tell me if you see anything hidden that i did not get.

ok what i did not get was this. i saw my ex in crutches. he looked quite broken. not at all the spirited man that i know him to be. was quite shocking. also towards the end of the dream i remove some packets of vegetables from his refrigerator. they would rot if i did not and i segregate a part of them and tell him to ask his househelp to do the rest.

posted August 15, 2007 05:11 AM         

Your queries are no trouble.

Somewhere in your mind, consciously or subconsciously, you feel that your ex is not doing so well (crutches, broken spirit), or perhaps you subconsciously kind of hope he is not doing too well without you. Either you perceive him as being emotionally "vegetative", or the dream is hinting that this could be so, that he is currently emotionally "cold". No doubt, the emotional connection between you is certainly "on ice".

Your dream suggests that the mature, responsible, parent-like part of yourself is wondering if (scrutinizing) the ex would be able to truly provide for your needs, materially/physically and emotionally (kitchen).

Does any of that make sense?

posted August 16, 2007 07:42 AM         

thanks!! well yes most of it made sense

"No doubt, the emotional connection between you is certainly "on ice"."

posted September 05, 2007 02:01 PM         

Make sense?