Posts: 378
From: star cluster Spica
Registered: Nov 2004

posted February 15, 2008 06:13 PM         

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My boyfriend had a dream last night that he would like to try to figure out .... i will let him write it:

I don't know where it exactly begins, but somehow i end up in a big city building following my girlfriend trying to get her to come with me instead of going her way. it seemed as though she was on a "mission" or something. she was very serious but not in a bad mood. possibly trying to find something i'm sure was not there. everything is very clean and bright, so bright, sterile and shiny, but there is no source of the light. the building may be a factory or a group of buildings, with many stair cases and elevators. a maze or labyrinth of some kind i never traveled in any of the elevators. the rooms are all filled with crowds of people, mostly men wearing the same outfit, grey pinstripe suits with hats carrying briefcases. powerwalking in parallel at the exact same distance apart from one another. all doing the same thing at the same time turning thier heads or scratching them or checking thier watches in sync, not appearing to notice me, though i was fully aware of them. looking for my girl, i noticed a mirror reflecting one of theese people and turned my head to see the actual person instead of his image and noticed many mirrors and windows, instantly i felt overwhelmed. and lost. i pleaded her to stop going her route and come back, but she curtly said she had to run this errand or something and went down i flight of stairs, instantly i followed her to a room that basically looked the same to me, i was lost. i asked her again to stop and come home, and looked at an exit sign or it was a phone sign or something that made me feel we should go that way out of there. she acted like i said nothing, gave me a determined look then instantly took off down a slightly not so sterile red hallway stairs where an aquaintance of mine, jay a scorpio (we used to be friendly but now he just annoys me)was doing something to "his" door. fixing it or improving it, i believe. he said something to me to get me to talk with him but i just grunted and followed her along.
she either did or didnt do whatever she was trying to. i think she didn't, but just played it off like "mission accomplished"
now we're out side and i feel slightly relieved but totally fatigued from this adventure. out side was all dark exept i could see the yellow lines in the road like they were glowing. also the city streets had no litter and were 'sterile' i could see all the sewer grates were clean too and there was things livivg in them, i knew this yet i never looked in them. again now theres like four or five of "us" whoever we were. they all jumped in a blue station wagon vehicle with a roof rack and told me to hurry in side to escape to avoid the angryman that was all of a sudden chasing us. i had to struggle to put something in the car, i can't recall but it looked like a set of golfclubs special golf clubs that would save the world or something (i have no interest in golf)a through the 'clubs' in the car and had to scurry to find a few that had falled out, all while this madman, might of been jay, was chasing us not saying anything just running after us. we may have assumed he was violent.i found the missing club or whatever it was through it in the car and jumped right in the rear passanger door. my girlfriend was in the passenger front, the driver may have been my girlfriends father, a gemni. or my old friend, kev, a scorpio who tried to steal my girl away from me in real life.(i have no animosity towards him though and were still friends)
so were driving away and the back door is open, the hatchback or whatever its called the door is hanging by half a hinge and i try to shut it, but that dosen't work. so i slam it and that dosen't work either. all the people in the car shout at me in a panic to shut the door. finally i lift it as i shut i slam the door and it closes as we drive away... then the phone rings and i wake up

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From: Netherlands
Registered: Feb 2008

posted February 17, 2008 11:06 AM         

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Hi thebigeliza

As far as I can tell;
''the big city building'' he mentioned stands for our higher selves/spiritual selves. So maybe you are walking a spiritual or philosophical path, and your boyfriend is trying to walk the same path as you (maybe out of love).

Then when the five people came into the city;
A city resembles our life path.He saw yellow lines on the road that indicates his lifepath is clear(so he knows what he is doing in his life). For example if the road was damaged orso it would indicate a person that doesn't know how to go from there or that he is stuck in a situation and the expections aren't too good aswell. Also the city is free of litter, adding more clarity towards your boyfriend's lifepath.
Sewers are our dark sides and it is good that they are clean, but not good when there are things living in them, so I come to the conclusion that your boyfriend is afraid of facing himself in a way.....

Srry I couldn't give you clarity on the other things and I hope you found this usefull

Anyone else have anything to add?

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From: Atlanta
Registered: Jun 2005

posted February 21, 2008 04:45 AM         

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Hello thebigeliza

Beka makes some good points. Thanks Beka!

Thebigeliza's boyfriend ...

I feel exhausted after reading this one! I'll bet you feel a bit exhausted at times trying to keep up with thebigeliza. She must be pretty special.

Without going into great detail, this dream seems to suggest that you and your girlfriend have differing belief systems, but that, because you care for her, you are allowing yourself, reluctantly, to "go her way". You are very unsure about what she thinks and believes, to the point that it makes you feel "lost" and "overwhelmed". Yet still you "follow".

The old parts of yourself, somewhat symbolized by Jay, nag and pursue you, bringing conflict, frustration, and maybe even anger (the angry man is a part of yourself) into you and out of you. It is a great struggle for you to wrap your mind around your girlfriend's system of belief. You are afraid of "losing" her to whatever this system of thought/belief is, so you continue to hang on.

What do you think about this?

If there is something in particular about the dream you would like some thoughts on, just let me know.

Walk in Peace

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