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posted May 04, 2008 02:44 PM         

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if you continue to share dreams and other worldly experiences with someone, what does that mean? The person that I meet with in the non-waking world is my ex and we are very close although we will not be together due to the decisions I have made these past few months. Could he be my twin or something? I never experienced this with anyone before so its kinda weird to me.

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posted May 05, 2008 05:38 PM         

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I think it means you both still share a very close bond.

I've had shared dreams with Mr Gemini, mostly at the beginning of the relationship. I get a lot of interesting dream stuff going on.

The question is do you still want to be with your ex and that's what the dreams are telling you?

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posted May 05, 2008 09:07 PM         

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I have know him since 2005 and it has been like this ever since. but i kinda messed things up because I believed I was over him but after I screwed things up I realized that I am never gonna be over him. I had this crazy feeling that I didnt care about him and that I didnt care that my actions could alter my relationship with him. But 6 months later I fell hard. I realized how much he meant to me. But when I didnt care for him I had started spending time with his cousin. His cousin kept putting the moves on me and I eventually gave in after he kissed me. That eventually let to other things. so i kinda messed up getting back with my ex. but i still want him around. I cant see myself without him even if I cant be with him. I doubt that he will ever get over that or forgive me. but a part of me calls out to him when we get to far apart from each other. I know its bad but it hurts to much to know that I might have to live the rest of my life without him being there for me.

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posted May 06, 2008 03:07 PM         

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i dont know. maybe this topic should be in soul unions.

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posted May 07, 2008 01:02 AM         

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Aw. That must be so hard for you...

I just had a thought, do you think that you could be working through things together in your dreams? And have you actually talked to him about how you feel? Because if not, I say talk to him and see if you two can work things out. You wouldn't be dreaming about him like this if it wasn't important.

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posted May 07, 2008 04:30 AM         

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Well said, GeminiLover.

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posted May 07, 2008 10:06 AM         

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i think that he either denies that he shares dreams with me or he doesnt remember. or maybe im the only one having the dreams. he doesnt really talk about things like that because i think he is afraid of that part of life. very unfamiliar ground for him.

but i will try. i have the faith of an child sometimes. thats one thing that i love about myself.

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posted May 07, 2008 05:24 PM         

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Thanks Ra. Nice to see you, btw!

MiaMammy, I think a lot of people fear things like shared dreams and so on. I used to (unintentionally) freak my mother out when I was young by telling her things about my dreams, and Mr Gemini goes into denial about such things these days too (although there is no doubt in MY mind that quite recently we were in a dream together)... so I think don't mention much about the dreams to your partner, focus primarily on what's going on emotionally/regarding the relationship. Be straight with him, and be sure to get a straight answer. Once you do get your answer, you can either go forward with him or move on.

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posted May 07, 2008 11:42 PM         

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thanks for everything you guys. if something good happens, i'll let you know.

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posted May 08, 2008 03:45 AM         

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All the best with this... I truly hope you get what you want, good luck!

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posted July 10, 2008 06:58 AM         

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He and I just cant get it right. but thanks you guys for all your encouragement and help and love. I am starting to beleive that me being with him is just not where I need to be. They say never go back to the past so I going to take that advice and move on.

Love you guys!

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