posted June 20, 2008 03:02 AM         

The dream:
I'm in college, and heard that there was this event that was extra credit, so I went there along with another girl that I've never met, but in the dream, she's like another close friend of mine. Sometime during the event, there was this old lady who came and sat next to us (she was one of the speakers for the event), and I had a good conversation with her, while her friends were joining us. Later, when the event was almost over, I find that the time was 4:18 in the morning- saturday (college that I went to was 50 miles away from home- I was never this late, and I always told my parents when I would come back home, which would be at the most 10:30 pm using a two-hour ride train). So I panicked, because my cell was off, and probably my parents were worried about me by now. My friend and I went to the road near the train station. I found a line in front of the bus, and heard someone yell out the place I live in- so it made me think that this is special service for whoever attended the event (never happened in college). It turns out that it won't take me to the place I live in, but nevertheless I hopped on with my friend. As soon as I get in, I hear the back of the bus chanting the guy's name (the one I mentioned earlier- from his profiles and everything, it seems people love him). I never looked to the back of the bus, nor did I see him, or he saw me. I was happy that he was so loved, and I sat down at my chair. My friend left to do something, and after a while, I thought she wasn't coming back. A girl asked me if she can sit next to me, so I said alright. When my friend came back, she sat next to me, so I told her that I thought she got lost or something so I let the other girl take her seat. She called on the girl, and I told her that I thought my friend got lost, and we asked if my friend can sit. She nodded (they were still chanting his name), and then I woke up.

posted August 07, 2008 04:16 AM         

The only thing I can get from your dream is that you seem to be unsure about how to handle this guy, like you keep changing your mind about him. Other than that, I don't see that the dream offers any guidance about the situation one way or the other.

I know it has been a while since you had the dream ... anything happening? Does he still contact you? How do you feel about him? What do you think about him?

posted August 08, 2008 10:12 AM         

Thanks...yeah, I do feel like I don't know what to think of him.

I had this other dream a couple of days. It seem we and some other people were at a conference of some sort (not a lot of ppl were there though). He and the others stayed a while, and then left around 11:26ish pm.

I went after him without him knowing (he got into the elevator before me, so I caught the next one). When the elevator reached the lobby, I decided against getting out of the elevator, and heard him walking out of the building and talking to others.

I went back upstairs, and I wanted to check the time he reached his destination. Under his name was the number 12. I thought that was a bit too fast.

I decided to check out the numbers and this is what I got...
No. 11: It represents hidden dangers, treachery and difficulties from others.

No. 26: It represents gravest dangers and disasters brought about by the association of people. It also stands for ruin and losses because of bad speculation, ill advice, bad partnerships and unions.

No. 12: It represents suffering, anxiety and sacrifice. This number personifies a person being sacrificed for the plans and intrigues of others.

I'm worried- I don't know I should be worried about him, me, or both with these numbers.

Answering your questions- I feel he is a great person, very caring and lovable- almost childlike, but not immature. His heart is on his sleeve. He even admitted he can't be callous and trusts ppl too easily. He complained of several failed dates where ppl just stopped talking to him. I tried to know what they are, but chatting online (we only did that twice) is not enough for me to figure out the dynamics. I feel that he needs to learn how to protect himself from getting hurt.

I did see that he puts me on a pedestal, and debases himself at the same. I told him that he shouldn't debase himself and explained my reasons why- like he has a good personality and all, and that I prefer that he treats me like an equal.

Pretty much I want us to be together, but I feel from my side that religion is a barrier. I don't know if he'll be able to pass over that barrier (i.e. convert). He also doesn't know that I like him...I wouldn't say something like that.

I studied body language, and checked to make sure that he was flirting with me, as opposed to being a player, before I started liking him.

posted August 18, 2008 01:14 PM         

The dream seems to further emphasize your uncertainty (elevator/up and down).

As for the numbers, well, I'm not going to say you are wrong about them, but there are other meanings for these. Where did you find these meanings? I think Linda's meanings are different. The negativity of the meanings you found do not seem to correlate with what you know about the guy, or how you feel. There is nothing wrong with being careful, but I'm not sure there is a cause to be worried based soley on the numbers.

Take it slow, and time will tell.

What religious barrier is there to overcome?

posted August 26, 2008 01:01 AM         

Sorry for the delay- I wasn't aware that you would respond so soon. Well, I can't marry a guy outside my religion.

I got another dream today- It was at night, we were at a suburbish area, in the middle of the street. He was really upset and crying. I asked him what happened and told him that I'd like to help- but he said no, and a lil later, ran away. I was a bit hurt by that, and so I went to his place and later he returned to his place. I waited for him to calm down and hopefully open up. But the dream ended without ever knowing what happened.

I felt that there was some invisible barrier- I couldn't reach what was so personal to him.

This was the first vivid dream I had of him-at least one where the images and the emotions eminating from him were pretty vivid- although he is still acting the same way.