posted May 10, 2009 04:44 PM         

Haven't posted in a long time so hope you are all well.

I had an afternoon nap today and dreamed I was getting married in a small english church. I was in the room where you wait before you walk down the aisle and I was worried if my veil was straight and thinking about my future husband waiting outside (he wasn't someone I know..). Then a procession of people were knocking on my door and I was waiting for my stepdad to arrive and walk me down the aisle. Then I woke up and didn't want to.

It didn't seem a wish fufillment dream, more just like a everyday dream.

I think wedding dreams are common?

Would you appreciate any input.

posted May 11, 2009 05:31 AM         

In Jungian psychology, dreams are symbols of the 'union of the opposites' which can mean a balance between one's masculine and feminine aspects or the integration of some aspect of one's archetypal structure such as the integration of one's shadow.

posted May 11, 2009 10:47 AM         

Thank for your reply. Interesting...in my dream I was standing in front of a mirror looking at myself.

posted May 12, 2009 11:57 AM         

Insightful! yes, i think you are right. My mum had cancer a few months back and it caused major rifts and I got a lot of the blame for the anger and unfairness of cancer. I was told things about myself that I didnt know whether to believe. I went to see a counsellor cause I couldn't deal with the anger and accusations and he helped me to see if was unfair and to find who I was. My relationship with my mum is much better now due to communnication and my belief in myself. It was the first time (I am 25) that my mum saw me as an adult and I saw her this weekend and feel we've had a breakthrough. So yes, I am who I am now and I like that.

posted May 28, 2009 09:51 AM         

I've been dreaming lots recently.

One I had really disturbed me.There was a lot going on in the dream, but the image was of loads of kids in a cold swimming pool. It wasn't death but there was fear and vulnerability. I wish I could remember the rest.

I dreamt also the other night of my mum and I was getting on a train to leave my mum and i was upset and thought she didn't care. That was awful too.

I wish I could happy dreams.

posted May 28, 2009 11:03 AM         

As to your dream, you might want to ask Peri. I looked in some dream books but what was written didn't feel right. So just for my opinion.........

I think Pool=water=emotions. If things were not going well, as in fear, then well perhaps your aprehensive about a relationship your in or a potential one. After all the temperature in the water was cold as you said. So maybe your feelings have run cold, or someone's elses have or...

posted May 28, 2009 11:23 AM         

Lovely to speak to another Saggie! Yes, sparkle, sparkle is how I like to live life. I have a leo moon and libra venus/mars so am pretty positive.Whats your other placements?

Yes, have had lots of emotional upheaval with my mum having cancer and strained relationships. But my relationship with my mum is pretty good now so am not sure the train and leaving is about her. Its more about the fact I feel that people always end up leaving me. The kids and the water was awful, I felt like one of those underwater cameras watching.

Regarding love - my loves have always been international (very Saggie) and so end up leaving the country and im not in a position to follow or it ends due to distance.

anyways, back to work...

posted May 28, 2009 04:30 PM         

yep those international relationships would seem to be a bit....trying?

My placements are:
sun/sag
moon/libra
merc/scorp
venus/sag
mars/libra
aries rising

posted June 01, 2009 04:28 PM         

As a fellow saggie, do you get friendship and love mixed up? I do it all the time! Especially with pleasing and my harmony loving libra placements. It drives me crazy.

posted June 04, 2009 04:58 AM         

Had the strangest dream this morning. I dreamt I was involved with an older man (not sure if lover or something else - perhaps someone keeping me captive.) We were in a flat and the theme was of me escpaing or attempting to relate to this man but always wanting to escape.There were other people involved in this dream too..I wish I could put my finger on it.

posted June 04, 2009 07:37 AM         

I have many dreams recently. What is the saturn transit? My birth date is 26/11/83.

There is a lot going on in my life right now. Endings etc.

posted June 09, 2009 04:50 AM         

Had another dream with the theme of children.

I dreamt I was wandering dark streets with terrace houses and I witnessed a man trying to stab a lady in her doorway. Then suddenly I was back in my home (where my parents live) and I was outside and these kids were around me (my nephews) and I was trying to stop them being hurt.

It was an unpleasant dream to say the least; there always seems to be a dark male figure who is a threat.

posted June 09, 2009 01:20 PM         

I looked in a dream book, BTW it is copywrite 1940, so take that with a grain of salt.

CHILDREN:
It is a fortunate augury to dream of having children. A single person may look foward to having a large and loving family.

So you see that book is not really saying much.

You speak of fearing for your nephews and also of the dark man, presence, whichever.
Are you concerned for them in anyway? Has there been any kind of threat or worries for their safety. Like an ex wanting to get custody or something like that?
You didn't say what the situation was with them, and I wouldn't want to pry.
But that is the way the dream comes across to me, literally. You also say your at your parents home, so maybe that is your subconscious "safety" zone, and your mind puts the children there to protect them?

posted June 09, 2009 03:35 PM         

I always enjoy your posts so thanks or replying. Hmm, dream cards sound interesting! I have angel cards but not dreams ones.

Kids - they've come up in several dreams now.I'm due to visit my sister and my nephews end of this month. Ive had a difficult time with my older sister as we are very different and led different paths. As the younger one I always adored her and felt that love for her/from her would be unconditional. but i was wrong. Around the time my mum got cancer my sister said she didnt want to be my older sister anymore and didnt like me. To this I was hurt but ive tried very hard over the last 7 months to tell my family i love them more. Its got better with my parents but not with my sister, she refused to accept my apology for perhaps not being there for her. But she lives in canada and I live in UK so its a bit tough.

So kids - it could be me as a kid as well as my nephews. There is a sense of protection, maybe wanting to protect from hurt?