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SparklingSag
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posted January 20, 2010 07:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message
Dear all

Hope you are well and Happy New Year to you.

I woke up this morning from a very vivid dream. It involved family and a wedding. I was getting married in the dream andI had on a beautiful feathered wedding dress. But I was in a big house and it seemed to be my sisters house (she and I do not communicate well nowadays) and she was sleeping whilst all the kids (she has 4 kids) were running around screaming whilst I was trying to get prepared for my wedding.

Then I was in the High Street of my old hometown in Kent with my Mum. She hadn't met my groom yet and cause the wedding is the next day I do not wish to bump into him. So my mum wanders over to him and then comes back to me and says "he's alright" and I get annoyed.

Then I woke up. All I remember is the beautiful swan like dress.

But it seems this is more of an anxiety dream regarding my family relationships....


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GypseeWind
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posted January 21, 2010 05:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message
Hi There SS;

I've read your dream for two days now, and here is my opinion.

I think it's anxiety about family as well.

First off, what is a wedding? Well a wedding is a joining together of opposites (man and woman) maybe you have a desire to overcome your differences with family, and "marry" them together, so to speak.

RE: your sister. Do you feel that your sister is irresponsible in some facet of her life or in familial relationships (the running around of kids) and also do you feel that she is unaware of her actions? (sleeping)

It seems as if either your Mom's opinion of you either matters very much to you, or, she may give it to you when you have not asked for it, which may irritate you.

When you mention the dress, you said "feathers." Feathers are on creatures that fly. Do you find yourself flipping back and forth from wanting to work on your family situation and and,or run from it??

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SparklingSag
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posted January 22, 2010 04:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message
Dear GW

Yes, I think you have clearly highlighted the themes in the dream. Because it was not so much about the wedding to my fiance (and although I dearly love my real-life boyfriend, we are not at that stage to even think about marriage yet) I feel it is about my family. Interesting you picked up on the feathers of the dress as yes, I do feel that way about my sister and family. It's like do I try and carry on as normal? Or do I just forget it all and not so much run away but give up. But my sister is seemingly unconscious of it all or refuses to address it as she is indeed a mum and wife to four kids who live in a different country to me.I tried in the summer and went to visit my sister and spent a lot of money on the ticket and it wasn't a great trip. She was pregnant and grumpy a lot of time which is understandable but it was only at the end did she say she loved me and thanked me for coming. It didn’t mend any bridges and I did not wish to rock the boat and upset her.

My mum has an opinion on everything! Yes, I love her but it doesn’t mean I don’t get annoyed.

Its interesting, my boyfriend has a close family and I spoke with his mum recently and his sister. Somehow perhaps I envy their unity as a family.

Anyway, interesting thoughts. Dreams just show that although I may not try to think about this during the day....its stills come out somehow.

Sparkling

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