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seeker3030
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posted February 13, 2010 05:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeker3030     Edit/Delete Message
I asked my higher self what would be the purpose or the focus of my relationship with my friend who's recently got back in touch and I had the following dream.

Found myself with my mum and a bunch of other people who were known to me in the dream but couldn't consciously focus on or identify any of them, and we were in our old flat where I grew up. I was in the kitchen and was giving myself the task of clearing out the cupboards. I had a black bin liner and I opened the pull-out larder where we used to keep cans and all sorts of tinned goods. I was checking the sell by dates and chucking loads of things into the bin liner and then I came across lots of old cassette tapes (the type used in old answerphones) and announced "we don't need those anymore let's get rid and make room."

My mum suddenly came in and shyly tried to stop me saying she'd rather hang on to those. I bossily carried on and threw them into the bin liner which didn't seem to bother her terribly but I felt kind of cruel going against her wishes like that. Not something I would do in real life anyway to be honest - I'd have listened to them first to see whehter there was anything of sentimental value and sorted them that way. Don't quite know what the part with my mum is about but think it might be that she perhaps represents the childish part of me who would want to hang on to the past where I felt safe??

It was a very positive feeling in the dream and one of joy and freedom. So to relate it back to the question I asked I'm thinking that my friend is going to be a force that enables me to clear the decks and get rid of out of date nourishment, messages and information (larder cupboard being the nourishment and the tapes being the messages/info).

Just shows you... "ask and you shall be given!"

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eskimono
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posted February 13, 2010 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for eskimono     Edit/Delete Message
ok - i am gonna be really honest with you, cos you are scaring me a bit!!!

I don't interpret dreams (only cos I can't), I am only just learning the basics of astrology, I am not a big fan of tarot, I do some basic palmistry, I like psychics but think they are reading my mind more than any thing else.

I strongly believe in instincts/intuition.

Something within you is telling you to develope a relationship with this man.

You are reluctant to believe this because you have a perfectly acceptable relationship currently. What complicates this is that this relationship is also the natural family for your child.

We all do what you are doing, in looking for affirmation that the difficult decisions we are making are the right ones, but please don't put responsibility for this difficult decision in other peoples hands, that's not fair.

Can I suggest that if you want some real help, you post something within the Astrology folder? From what I am reading there, you will only get help if you be completely honest (the 'professional' astrologers seem to see straight through any casual intros and pretence) and you acknowledge that they are only providing factual info, not advice.

You are worrying me cos you are picking up on positive affirmation from people who aren't necessarily aware of the complete picture.

You know that I know where you are and am completely supportive and sympathetic, perhaps all I can help do is ensure you go into this with your eyes open??

I am here to help x

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seeker3030
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posted February 13, 2010 07:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeker3030     Edit/Delete Message
Eskimono yes you read and responded to a post I made in another area and I thank you for your honesty. I don't wish to deceive anyone - I'm trying to make sense of an awful lot of things that are happening at the moment and that's why the mix of posts. I'm not cherry picking believe me! I'm well aware of the truths involved but they're my truths to process hence the different questions I'm asking in different areas. I'm certainly not putting responsibility for anything in anyone's hands but my own!! I'm well aware that any decision has to be down to me. It's got nothing to do with this man whether I stay or leave my current relationship. Nothing. He happens to have come back into my life at a time when I was feeling confused and we do have a strong connection which I'm trying to make sense of. That's all.

As I'm sure you remember from being in this situation, one day you're up the next you're down. That's all. I had a couple of interesting dreams so I posted them here. I had an astrological question which I posted in that area of the forum. As I say, lots going on, lots to process/examine etc. I appreciate your concern and your help but please don't judge me based on a few posts. I can see how you might have thought I'm flitting around asking questions based on half the picture but be assured, every piece of information is slotting into the bigger picture in my head/heart.

That's all I can do for now. I'm not the one with the money or the power in this as I think you said you were in your situation, and as such I have to be ultra sure of what I'm doing. I'm still not. So I'm going to keep trying to make sense of it all my way if that's ok? I'm not placing all my hopes on this man - far from it. I'm well aware that this will be an important friendship in both our lives but I'm not under any illusions about a romance. It probably can't and won't happen and that's ok. Sad but ok.

Again I thank you for your help but please don't worry or be 'scared' - as I say I'm under no illusions. Just trying to piece everything that is happening together in some sort of order.

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eskimono
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posted February 14, 2010 03:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for eskimono     Edit/Delete Message
ok - if you need any practical help, just shout

I am not judging you, I have walked in your shoes and I am sure you are being hard enough on yourself without others joining in - sorry if it appeared that way.

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GypseeWind
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posted February 14, 2010 03:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message
????

I have no idea what you two are talking about, SOOOO, how bout I just talk about the dream you've written here.

The kitchen is where you are nurtured/fed. You are throwing away things that no longer feed you, they are out of date, useless to you now.
RE: The tapes. The tapes are like messages we replay in our heads over and over. "I'm not good enough" "I'm not smart enough" etc.. We play them so much they become a part of us, and they become the basis of how we think, and interact in the world.
But, you threw you tapes away, you are embarking on a new belief system.
Your Mom may have not wanted you to throw the tapes away, because, you ARE you, and you belief system is sentimental to her. She may not even be aware of some of the things on your tapes, but she may also have created some of your tapes, unconciously, as we Mothers do, with the best intentions, so that is why she does not want you to throw them out. She may be afraid if you change, you wont be the same you.

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Mystique
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posted February 14, 2010 07:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystique     Edit/Delete Message
Hello seeker,

Clearing out the cupboard shows you clearing out stored memories and feelings and emotions which you have preserved (cans/tinned goods) and the sell by dates may show timing....the cassette tapes you are right are messages you have received whether consciously or through the ethers as his soul communicated to yours while you were apart leading different lives

I think in your need to clean through the preserved memories you may be hasty about something and mum's sudden appearance during your clean up may show your wiser more experienced aspect of your self suggesting you hold on to the messages. I think maybe mum's appearance may be the more telling part of your dream! You may be at odds with yourself over how to react with him as you said in the previous dream he keeps you unsure.

Seeker try not to do anything hasty now at least not until Mars goes direct again...these are trying times for you and for many... just keep asking for guidance and trust yourself.

Mystique

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