posted February 17, 2010 09:12 PM         

I had three friends, Tom(Sag) Brenda(Cap) and Sue(Aqu) I trusted them more than anyone, even though their personalities were very different from each other. I was always honest and I never kept anything from them. I would always hang out w/ Sue and Brenda. Tom was always kinda shy and odd but he had a good heart. There would be times we’d talk forever about everything, but whenever I wanted to hang out with him he would all the sudden freak out and decline. At first I was confused, and then Id get frustrated and I’d stop talking to him. Then a few months later when he started talking to me again, Id forget my frustrations and the cycle would start yet again.

I realized just how much I loved them when I went on a trip and lost all communications w/ them for about a month. When I came back I expressed to them how much I realized they meant to me. So one night we got together and I drank a little too much and then something sorta happened between me and Tom.(who doesnt drink) at first I wanted to just fool around, being tipsy in all, but after a while he made me stop and he just held me,(which really caught me off gaurd) and I felt the strangest connection with him. Almost like we’d known each other much longer than 6 yrs. Ive meet a lot of guys, and most of the time I loose interest and they dont become serious, (even the ones I really like) and I didn’t really like Tom that way.

So naturally I didn’t know what to make of it. Then something strange happened. I woke up one night, spanned my room, and there he was, standing by my door looking right at me. I sat straight up and blinked my eyes twice, so Im positive I was awake, and he was still there. “Tom” I said, and just like that he was gone. That was another first. At this point I became scared I was going to loose him completely because the night all this happened I got this strange intuition telling me not to leave because something bad was coming. Sort of like “enjoy this while it lasts” kinda thing.

So long story short, Sue grew another face somewhere and lied to Tom and Brenda about me. They believed that I said everything Sue said that I said. Even now I cant stand the fact that Tom and Brenda really believe I would ever talk bad about them. Im still furious at Sue. I couldn’t believe how she could betray me so easily. After all we’d been through, it really broke my heart. For about a month after I waited for them to calm down and realize how dumb they were acting.(Brenda and Tom) I waited for apologies that never came. So I decided to move on and start healing. Ive been run out on before so I know how to move on.(though it does NOT get easier) I started hanging w out w/ my other friends (Who I absolutely Adore!) and even started flirting with this guy Alan, who curiously enough, is also a Sag. Thats when the weirdness excelerated.

I began to sense I was being watched. This was especially uncomfortable when I would get ready in the morning for work. (Try dressing and undressing w/ someone watching!) I couldn’t shake it. Finally, one night around 3, I saw a shadow in my room. I thought it was my brother but later he said he’d been asleep by 1. Then my eyes started to itch horribly. I washed them out and it didnt do any good. I tried to go to sleep and I got this phone call. “Hello” I said. I just got breathing. “Hello” I said, and again all I got was breathing. I was about to hang up when I heard “Hello” back. It was Tom, Id know that voice anywhere. “Hello” I said again, no answer. So I hung up. I checked the time and it was exactly 3:33.

Then I started having these dreams that were so real, me being a water bearer, I’ve never had dreams this real to life before. I would be at my grandmothers house( I look up to my grandmother and go to her for advice all the time) and Sue would show up, saying how sorry she was. I would calmly stand my ground. I meant what I said when I said I never wanted anything to do with her again. I would deny her apology. These dreams became so frequent I felt as though she might be trying to reach me spiritually. One day I was on my mac when a conversation opened, it was Sue! I immediately blocked her. She can be vicious, and I felt she was going to say something that would hurt me even more. Besides I was so angry(still am) that I blocked her before she could write anything. Soon after I started dreaming about Tom too. I would dream that we close again. When it came down to it, I really missed him and Brenda.

So then, Alan asked me out and we started dating. We became close, and I began talking to him about all these weird things happening. Instead of assuring me that it was nothing, he explained that he‘d been going through a lot of the same things. Shadows had been appearing at his house which had been accompanied by a feeling of being watched. We told our friend Trey(Libra) who used to date Sue.(It ended very badly) and he said that the same stuff had been happening to him as well, shadows and such. The only difference in all of this was that I was having dreams, they werent.

All of this kept happening until one day I asked God to make it stop. The shadows disappeared. The dreams stopped, but I couldn’t stop thinking about Tom and Brenda. Then the dreams started again. Sues’ apologies were denied, and Tom lingered. I found out by chance one day when I ran into a mutual friend that Brenda missed me a lot and wanted to speak to me. She txt me, I forgave her, but Im weary about it. I’ve heard capricorns can be manipulative and when it comes down to it she had no reason to turn on me. I dont know if shes sincere. She also said Tom is dating an aries chick. If hes happy thats great. But I still feel this connection( even though I dont have romantic feelings for him) and I dont know how to deal with it.

posted February 19, 2010 07:34 PM         

There may be more to the shadows you and your friends have seen... but for now the only suggestion I have here for you is that if you are missing Tom and Brenda, try having an honest conversation with both of them, express your hurt at what happened in the past, see what they say and resolve the past. If they are willing to maintain the friendship then they will be honest with you. Otherwise, forgive them and move on.

Since you are unsure of Brenda's text apology meet with her in person, have it out and see whether she's sincere or not. However, try not to worry because of generalizations you've heard of, of Sun signs alone, meaning if Brenda is manipulative she is so because of who she is not because she is a Capricorn.

Hope this helps you some