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sesame
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posted August 09, 2010 06:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sesame     Edit/Delete Message
My wife has the following recurring dream:

Ever since her first boy (of two) was born, she has dreamed of sitting in the audience of a theater where all the lights are on in the second row. In these dreams (that have occurred about ten times in the last four years), she is a young many with dark hair. She can tell because there are mirrors on the walls of what appears to be a dance studio with a ballet bar along the walls. She is uncomfortable from the moment of starting the dream as she is aware a date will appear. It's never the same woman, but they are all very beautiful, and all smile expectantly, and from the moment they sit down, she knows that want to have sex. They all wear the same style dress in either red or black. They're always pulling her in for a kiss when she's (he's) always resisting. They are always lying down on the chairs and pull her down in order to pleasure them, or they sit in her lap and undo her (his) pants. They're usually screaming and laughing and enjoying the experience, but Sal feels pushed into it and has no choice and has to "get it over and done with" - she (he) is hot and sweaty and uncomfortable and feels suffocated. No-ones paying attention to these events but are awaiting a show to begin on stage. She (he) stares at the stage waiting for the girl to finish and leave him alone. The overwhelming feeling is of pressure throughout the dream.

Sal is a Pisces with Aries asc, and Taurus moon (if that helps). She has always wondered what these dreams mean and we have finally sat down and typed it out. Any feedback would be welcome.

Heaps of Love,
Dean.

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GypseeWind
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posted August 11, 2010 06:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message
Maybe she is having a past life recall.
I say this because I only had them AFTER I had my children. Something about the act of being pregnant/giving birth seems to open some sort of doorway for some people.

Does she say it seems very vivid and real?
Can she smell anything, or recall the feel of any objects in the dream?

She has some very symbolic things in that dream that can be interpreted, but it just feels like a past life when I read it.

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sesame
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posted August 17, 2010 01:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sesame     Edit/Delete Message
She said it's very vivid and clear, and the chairs are very hard on her bottom and back. She can also smell the women.

What were your past-life dream experiences? What do you think is symbolic in these dreams?

Cheers,
Dean.

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Nephthys
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posted August 17, 2010 11:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nephthys     Edit/Delete Message
I too, felt right away when reading this that it is a past life........

However it could be a symbolic message, not literal; the same lesson that she was supposed to learn in a past life, she didn't learn, so she is supposed to learn now.

So it doesn't necessarily have to do with sex, but I get the feeling it has to do with speaking up for herself and speaking out for what she wants/needs.

Her feeling of being uncomfortable. She is currently in a situation in real life that she is not comfortable with and is not secure to speak out for herself. Perhaps people are taking advantage of her in some format?

The lights in the 2nd row = The spotlight is on her.

People looking at her, approaching her for sex = People are watching her to see how she will handle a particular situation/issue she is dealing with in real life and she needs to stand up for herself and speak out.

I hope this makes sense!!!

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Nephthys
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posted August 17, 2010 11:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nephthys     Edit/Delete Message
The overwhelming feeling is of pressure throughout the dream = there is something in real life she is not facing, not coming to terms with, not dealing with.

I hope you and her both can spiral ideas from mine...........I believe that dreams address the root of the issue and are not always meant literally.

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GypseeWind
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posted August 21, 2010 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message
I agree that the spotlight is very significant. It is put there to say, "LOOK, see what you need to learn or be aware of."

Also with the stage, the act of 'Performing' and the pressure.

I feel as though maybe this lifetime had something to do with having to perform sex, or having sex expected from her/him as some sort of means of survival or .. just some sort of thing that was expected in the individual.
That is why there isn't any enjoyment, because the person feels in some way as if it is an obligation.

I also wonder if perhaps there was an identity crisis or crisis of sexual confusion during that lifetime.
What do you think??

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sesame
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posted August 22, 2010 03:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sesame     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks for that guys - I think my wife agrees.

Cheers,
Dean.

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