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SparklingSag
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posted November 05, 2010 05:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message
Dear All

For the 6th time, my dreams have featured my mexican guy friend who left two weeks ago. The dreams have been both romantic and supportive. Am I just missing him perhaps?

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GypseeWind
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posted November 06, 2010 02:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message
Probably.

Did you not want him to leave??

Another thing I've noticed in dreams is that we seem to 'replay' recent themes over and over, for a certain time, and then they dwindle away.

For ex. After I quit my job three weeks ago, for about two weeks straight I dreamt of my boss, whom I didn't like at all, but I think it was sort of a brain detoxing thing for me, a cleansing if you will.

When it's someone we care for, it's like we hold on to them any way we can, and by having that image so strong in our minds, our brains, understandably, churn out those images for us while we sleep.

*and also, there is that possibiltiy that he is thinking of you as well, so you two are 'communicating' if you will with your subconscious minds.

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SparklingSag
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posted November 06, 2010 04:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message
Hi GW

Great to hear from you again and for your insight. I think you are right on all three counts. It's a mixture of missing him and trying to hold onto him somehow. He wrote to me today and said he is missing me and others too so its possible he has been thinking of me too.

I know that venus is retrogade right now? Is it about past loves and recurring issues with love? I had written to my ex bf trying to make peace with him as so much has moved on and he didn't bother replying. It doesn't matter that he didn't respond, it was more me saying that I no longer feel angry or hurt and feel calm about the past. Today a sense of contentment was with me, I am happy with my own company and loving myself, if no one else is.

Sparkling

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