posted February 27, 2011 06:20 PM            

Basically we are always at some sort of conference or gathering of professionals in our field of work. Originally it started with when we saw each other it was ackward at first but eventually we got to talking and all the old feelings come rushing back in, where we will come together romantically and more loving than ever before. But just the last few weeks, the dream has changed in that, yes we are at the same place but we remain at a distance and the opportunity doesn't seem to arise where we can have a chance to talk to each other.

I know that in the dream, I feel that I really want that chance to talk to him because I am very attentive to his every move. But when he looks at me, you can sense that feeling of sadness/hurt/supressed feelings when he sees me but remains at a distance doing his own thing and interacting with others.

posted February 27, 2011 06:54 PM            

The work environment could literally represent where you two met but it could also represent a need to work on something in your relationship.

It seems that the work place is also a place of comfort and security.

I was shooting ideas as they came to me.

posted February 27, 2011 07:22 PM            

Well Little Cloud, we broke up a little over a year ago. We were in a long distance relationship and because of work constracts from our own jobs(we no longer worked together) but were in different countries we weren't able to see it each too much in our last year of our relationship. This lead to a lot of frustration on both of our parts but I must say that it affected me more. As a result, from the frustration, we agrued more which made phone conversations (our only form of contact) not that enjoyable any more. In the end he broke up with me on the phone, just a week before I was to visit him. And to go with his wishes, all contact was stopped immediately because he felt that once people break up they should severe all communication, as it would make it too hard to get over each other and string us along. He had mentioned that our relationship wasn't ending because of lack of love but that he no longer saw a future with me and he also said that he probably could never stop loving me even if he tried.

Anyways, fast forward to New Year 2011, it had been over a year since any form of communication between us. And I received an email from him. I responded back with a very quick update about my last year and that I was doing well. He responded back with the same informal, quick update. I had waited a few days, and thought I would email again with a little more of an update on my life and I never received a response. And that is where it stays plus the dreams all wrapped into it.

I might also mention that for the month after the break up, I was haunted by nightly dreams of him and I being happy to the point where I woke up crying every morning.

posted February 28, 2011 06:58 AM            

So, last night instead of the normal run of events, my ex and I were actually still in a relationship in my dream. In fact, he came to visit me at my home and both my parents were there (my mom passed away a couple of years ago). I found out first from my father, as my ex had confided in him and then from my ex, that during one of our times apart (just by distance) that he cheated on me and got another girl pregnant. Of course, I was hurt, but my ex wanted to work things out with me and tried to state that with the distance its not like we are in a relationship but now would like to continue with me. Of course, I stated the obvious as to "why should I forgive hime he still cheated on me and was the father of another woman's baby and he never wanted kids". But in the dream I forgave (which I know I wouldn't have done in person).

I have also had on several occasion, dreams in which I found out he cheated on me. I always felt that this was just a subconsious fear of mine coming through in my dreams but the pregnancy is new.

posted March 01, 2011 05:14 PM            

That's a quick view on what pregnancy in dreams mean. It usually indicates some sort of change. I still think you need to contact him.