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posted April 08, 2011 10:48 PM            

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I had a dream that this girl I used to talk to but hasnt talked to now was a black widow and I was the smaller spider and she was on top of me but I got away from her. This happened in my room. I hope its not a sexual reference, goodness if so, I need to get laid lol. Black widow women are those that kill their husbands after pretending to love them. Scary dream. It was black background too.

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posted April 09, 2011 11:14 AM            

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Sometimes symbolic death can be a good thing. I think you hit the interpretation pretty close though she wouldn't physically kill you. Maybe something like your spirit or another part of you and it was for the better that you got away.

When I dreamed my sister got pregnant and had a baby with her boyfriend.. she didn't get pregnant. They had a kitchen remodel. Sometimes you have to look at dreams that way.

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posted April 09, 2011 02:51 PM            

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Im not sure what it means still. I still like her so how can death be involved? But the death part may still be valid. We just haven't spoken to each other. Not sure what my spirit did.

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posted April 09, 2011 06:02 PM            

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You said you don't talk to her any more, do you wish you did?

It could be the death is symbolic for the death of communication that you used to share, and the darkness of the dream reflects your sadness about that (the loss).

In general though, spider dreams are supposed to be good luck omens.

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posted April 10, 2011 12:13 AM            

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Cool thanks Gypsee, yeah I wonder why out of all things why choose a spider to tell me that? But when I was leaving her I was like "I got to the hec out of here' lol. But yeah it fits. thanks.

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posted April 10, 2011 01:48 PM            

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Also, I have heard that death is a dream of contrary and usually means a birth/pregnancy in the family is near.

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posted April 10, 2011 10:10 PM            

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Its funny you mention that because I had another dream of a pregnancy hint. In this dream a woman was sliding down a pole and laughing and a man was on top of the pole laughing with her and she was sliding up and down moaning, very obvious right? the pole is the penis. Guess what else happened, the pole broke and water came out!! But the question now is who will get pregnant? Could it be the girl I liked? Or a family member? All I can think of is my sister or sister in law. As they are closest to me.

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posted April 11, 2011 01:55 PM            

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Yeah, I would say the pole dream was very straightforward.

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