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anongrl10
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From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 28, 2011 07:33 AM
  
OK, I'm sure I was dreaming but it felt so real. I dreamed of that guy I met earlier in the morning (for business). During the meeting, something weird happened. I was about to go and extended my hand for a handshake. However, the timing was a bit off because he had something else to say so although he took my hand, he kept on talking and for a while we were standing there with him holding my hand. I have very sensitive touch (I'm a Reiki II it's all in the touch) and I got the strangest feeling from his hand holding mine!! I was half-amused by the scene, and while I was listening to him and looking at him talk, I was half-smiling feeling a bit awkward with the hand-holding.
I got a feel of shere joy from the touch! It doesn't happen often. I notice the way people handshake because touch is so important to me. I notice without any effort; it just gets translated into a clear signal. So his hand holding was as great to me as a great kiss!
Now the guy is nothing I would call home about in real life. I never felt an attraction on a physical level. That's what happened in real life. At night, I dreamed of him smiling at me while holding my hand and we had this personal conversation (instead of the business convo we had in real life) where he told me that he's a Cappie with Scorpio rising (lol) and he confessed his feelings for me! It was a fantastic dream. I woke up feeling great. How is this going to be a symbol? Could it be a lucid dream? I know I was dreaming but it felt so real at the same time. Very very weird! As I said, I'm not attracted to him (and know very little about him much less his date of birth) but he made an impression with his touch and also I admire him a lot on the job; he's very focused, dedicated on the goal and a hard-worker. I remember telling him (in the dream) that he seemed like a Pisces (lol)!! I had a clear sense that he knows how to love unconditionally. All this from touching his hand! That morning I withdrew my hand in a natural way while we kept talking. A few minutes later, we clearly said good bye and we shook hands again (he extended his hand first this time lol) with no handholding in mid-air this time. It would be funny if that was not a business meeting! LOL
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anongrl10
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From: won't_disclose
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posted December 28, 2011 08:21 AM
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lechien
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From: in a giant room with 2 little furry friends
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posted December 28, 2011 08:54 AM
sounds like it was a really sweet dream!!  i don't know, but it doesn't necessarily have to do with anything sexual. i know it was not a sexual dream, but it had a romantic feeling. in dreams, i know deeper connections can translate into romance or sex. Indeed you "got to know" him via your reiki feeling while he prolonged the contact with you. i don't know much about lucid dreaming though. will you be meeting him again for more business stuff? i do wonder if he has special feelings for ya.  otherwise, maybe it is an indication that he has the potential to become a great friend? IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 28, 2011 08:59 AM
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Originally posted by lechien:
sounds like it was a really sweet dream!! i don't know, but it doesn't necessarily have to do with anything sexual. i know it was not a sexual dream, but it had a romantic feeling. in dreams, i know deeper connections can translate into romance or sex. Indeed you "got to know" him via your reiki feeling while he prolonged the contact with you. i don't know much about lucid dreaming though. will you be meeting him again for more business stuff? i do wonder if he has special feelings for ya. otherwise, maybe it is an indication that he has the potential to become a great friend?
Yes, it wasn't about sex but it was definitely about affection. I somehow have the feeling that he's a very affectionate man. Yes, we'll meet again working on this project. I can definitely see at least a friendship link there. As I said I admire the way he dedicated himself to the project goal.
This is a bit of humanitarian goal, I work on this project with no funding right now, and seeing someone who has a similar interest and dedication in this kind of thing to me is very uplifting.
I do wonder if he has special feelings for me as well. He must have something in Scorpio as his eyes are truly fixated on me when I speak. It's weird. LOL
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lechien
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From: in a giant room with 2 little furry friends
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posted December 28, 2011 09:09 AM
oooh, i hope you'll find out and update here, if you can! i'm bad at judging people's signs and planets with they way they look/act. i'm always impressed when astrologers can do that!but yes, i get the feeling of "affection" very much. it'll be nice if you develop a nice friendship with him! sounds great what you are working on! IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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From: won't_disclose
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posted December 28, 2011 09:17 AM
There was a lot of chemistry in the air during this meeting. He impressed me all around with his dedication on the project. Hard to explain. Thanks for the kind words. We don't even know if it will work out as we're looking for funding. Without funding all my work will just go down the drain. He also supports me in what I want to do. The discussion was very lively as we both care a lot about this and we want to see it work!
I guess we'll see. The thing is I read people very easily and this accelerates emotions on my side. Most people need a lot more time to read in others the things I "get" right from hello. It can get you into trouble as you seem to always be a step ahead of the other person. But yes to me this guy is already a friend given our common goals. Touching him gave me a feeling like meeting a soulmate. 
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lechien
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From: in a giant room with 2 little furry friends
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posted December 28, 2011 09:36 AM
that sounds very special.  i admire people with great intuitions, or people who are in tune with it! i am soooo dense and pretty slow on catching on things.  this can also be bad because i often don't trust OR even notice my intuitions and get myself into trouble.  IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 28, 2011 09:45 AM
You sound like a simply adorable Sag to me! Seriously though I guess both extremes can be hard to deal with. When forming close relationships with others, it's best if both people are the same in that regard so they can grow together. I admire people who differ and still are able to grow together. I find that pretty hard. IP: Logged |
lechien
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From: in a giant room with 2 little furry friends
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posted December 28, 2011 11:16 AM
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Originally posted by anongrl10:
You sound like a simply adorable Sag to me! Seriously though I guess both extremes can be hard to deal with. When forming close relationships with others, it's best if both people are the same in that regard so they can grow together. I admire people who differ and still are able to grow together. I find that pretty hard.
imagine if we'd ever meet in person, you'd be soooo frustrated with me i bet! btw i emailed youwith a question regarding the web stuff. i've figured out everything so far on my own, but finally hit a wall... don't know what i'm doing any more...!  IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 28, 2011 11:38 AM
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Originally posted by lechien:
imagine if we'd ever meet in person, you'd be soooo frustrated with me i bet!
Don't think so because as a Saggie Sun myself I understand where you're coming from! I also think with friends, you learn to adapt. It's harder when you live with someone you love, as in a committed relationship. But it's adaptable all the same. It's just easier if both people are about he same in that regard. I bet you're more tuned in with people you love and live with, right? quote:
btw i emailed youwith a question regarding the web stuff. i've figured out everything so far on my own, but finally hit a wall... don't know what i'm doing any more...!
I'm sure you will be fine! I am busy right now, haven't checked email but when I finish what I'm doing, I will check it out! hugzz,
Anongrl10
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lechien
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From: in a giant room with 2 little furry friends
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posted December 28, 2011 12:35 PM
hehe true! i guess i'm not that dysfunctional as a friend. don't bother the emails i sent, i figured out something... but seem to be stuck again. for now, i'll try to figure this out... if i really cannot, i'll email you again. IP: Logged |
lechien
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From: in a giant room with 2 little furry friends
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posted December 28, 2011 12:50 PM
bah, nope, not true, i still didn't solve anything. so the email is valid... thank you for taking a look sweetheart! IP: Logged |
anongrl10
Knowflake Posts: 2883
From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 28, 2011 01:12 PM
Just saw the email and responded. IP: Logged |
Venia
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From: Germany
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 30, 2011 04:08 AM
Anongrl10 It seems that this dream is a clear sign about his feelings for you... The handshake was a 'reason' to 'feel' his truth, and the dream was a confirmation! I still wonder what's his Sun Sign, though!!! IP: Logged |
anongrl10
Knowflake Posts: 2883
From: won't_disclose
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 30, 2011 05:26 AM
Thanks, Venia!
It was a happy dream for sure!
Funny how your reading just confirmed it. That's why I love the Tarot. It's so spot on (when the reader is good ).I just hope he won't get stopped at anything though. It would be nice to get to know him better. And yeah I am still wondering about his Sun sign! He can't be a Cappie and a Scorpio AND a Pisces all at once! IP: Logged |
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