posted June 16, 2012 01:57 PM            

In my dream I discover that there are many rooms and my house turns into a mansion but the rooms are all currently occupied by guests whom I see walking in the hall way and all the guests are getting ready for a social event. At this point it feels like I am in somebody else house and I am looking at this part of the house with all the guest rooms because my actual guest that I was previously hanging out with in the living room sharing an affectionate moment, we lost ourselves.

During the affectionate moment I asked do you want to kiss until then we were just hanging out as friends and then when I asked that we looked at eachother like we did want to bc we were feeling real emotions but I didn't act on it bc I am married so I feel my unconscious decided to leave that room and pretend we lost eachother and look for him and that is when I found myself discovering all these occupied guest rooms of people that were getting ready for a social event.

My guest I haven't met in person but it could happen, we are both young, politically involved and with very similar views politically for the most part. My husband would totally be friends with someone like that and at the beginning of dream the three of us were all hanging out having a good time and then my husband felt sleep.

This is part two of another dream. In the other dream my husband and I were at a restaurant and husband felt sleep and I let him sleep and started walking out of the restaurant. As I walked out I felt something really fated was about to happen and then I met this guy who is the guest at my house in the second dream and we started talking.

posted June 16, 2012 10:00 PM            

In the first dream he felt sleep at a restaurant and a week passed we had a very bad fight, bad enough I HAD to leave him and now we are back together and me leaving is having an effect in him of finally looking at his behavior and renewing himself..its leading to personal growth it seems.

In the second dream he falls sleep in our room in our house after hanging out with me and a mutual new friend bc is late.

I think this person in my dream that I dont know in person is probably just someone that is waking up new qualities in me and there is nothing more to it bc as long as my husband is alive I am not going to be ok with having an affair or leaving him unless i have no choice but to leave him. I did cheat on him once for about two months a little bit over a year ago but I ended it and have been focusing on working on our relationship ever since. His my best friend and we have been together for 5.5 years and I love him. I not the cheating type, I dont like it but I was very isolated and my relationship was doing really bad and that needed to happen, I dont regret it but am not doing it again bc I dont like it. I dont like lying or been sneaky and prefer to just sacrifice and accept certain limitations in my relationship but I guess that I need that to happen in order to accept these limitations in my relationship.

posted July 27, 2012 08:13 PM            

You're right, its meaningful. There are two ways to look at why your husband falls asleep, and both the restaurant and your room have significance.

A restaurant is where you eat and therefore symbolizes the variety of energies/choices you need or want. He falls asleep here because in waking life he is not providing you with the variety of energies/choices/experiences you want or need.

Your room is an intimate place where you share yourselves. He falls asleep here because in waking life he is not providing the intimacy that you desire.

In the dreams, you are "spending time with someone I and him have a lot in common with" because that is how you want your husband to be, yet he is not at this time.

Another possible way to look at the falling asleep is that your husband is avoiding issues in your relationship, i.e. certain choices you have made (restaurant) and the intimacy you desire (bedroom). From what you have written, these could go hand-in-hand. Does he know about your past affair?

In addition, it could also be suggested that you are avoiding certain issues with your husband. There seems to be room for growth for the both of you.

How do you feel about this?

posted July 28, 2012 11:42 AM            

The guest you connect with and ask to kiss you is someone you meet that you can relate to. Many times, sexual feelings in a dream have nothing to do with physical attraction but rather an intellectual experience, or a mental connection such as having a warm conversation about a topic and you both agree on the same things. Just like when you dream of being in bed with someone. It doesn't mean you're physically attracted to that person, it means you share the same way of thinking and that you agree, and/or like the same things (hence the term "they're in bed together").

Hubby needs to wake up before he loses you.