posted August 06, 2012 05:19 PM            

I was somewhere in Europe maybe...100 years ago and I was with some guy and some family, which in the dream was my family and the man...I had the distinct impression he looked similar but not quite like my best guy friend.

There was a lot of water in the dream, like underground canals going through the barnhouse we lived in...and that guy and I kept on making out. You see, my best friend and I had this phase two years ago where he had a crush on me and I didn't and we sort of worked through it. I've never been attracted to him in that way so this experience, even if it was only a dream was kinda weird.

So then he and I are suddenly standing at my neighbours house in the modern time and we go in and my favorite teacher is having lunch at the kitchen table. I do not know why. My neighbours seemed surprised to see me and they asked who the guy was. I remember insisting on the fact that we were 'just friends'.

Shortly after I left without the guy and was told by this girl I know from school, that keeps on showing up in all of my dreams for some weird reason, that I wasn't supposed to leave. Since I know her as being very unpleasant I snapped at her and told her I didn't need to follow anyones rules...

And then I woke up.

I've been having a lot of dreams about guys I know and don't really care for and it's become a sort of pattern. Many of the same people are always there, like that girl.

posted August 08, 2012 04:34 AM            

Aren't young people like yourself always in a state of hormonal imbalance?

But seriously, I do think there is some meaning here, but it seems to be of a sub/unconscious nature, so it may be difficult to recognize.

The first portion, about being in the past, lets us know that the issue being pointed out by the dream is somehow rooted in the past. This could mean some family related issue or pattern imprinted on you from your early years, something more in the recent past, or even something rooted in a past life. Whichever the case, it is linked to the guys that keep appearing in your dreams. This dream is more specific, using the impression of your best guy friend. It is likely that he represents some aspect of yourself which is similar to the situation concerning him. Is it possible that you have a crush on someone who does not return the feeling?

The dream suggests hidden/unconscious emotional energy (underground canals) concerning a situation or relationship (kept making out). It also suggests that there is a lesson (teacher) you need to incorporate (eating/kitchen), perhaps concerning a relationship or situation you are close to but not fully involved with (neighbor's house). Or it could suggest that there is a new path to learn about (teacher) which will entail a transformation in yourself (eating/kitchen).

The girl you know from school who keeps appearing in your dreams is a reflection of your own "unpleasant" nature and perhaps suggests that part of your lesson or transforming has to do with resistance (don't need to follow rules), or being less resistant to the lessons or energies emanating from your unconscious, many of which present themselves in your everyday life by the way you interact with others.

So there is a need to be less insisting and resisting and more accepting and contemplative.

Does any of this make sense to you?

posted August 08, 2012 05:47 AM            

I don't know wether I can answer your question. At the moment none of this is clicking yet but I have a feeling it will soon.

posted August 10, 2012 10:14 AM            

This definitely speaks of your subconscious. I always consider the words spoken in a dream whenever I am given a specific message from someone, even if I don't like that person very much. So, I simply suggest for you to consider the words she spoke to you in the dream.