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geea
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posted August 16, 2012 12:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Now i don't remember much but it's like this:
I am the mother of a new-born child and i'm still in the hospital. The hospital is strange-looking,outside is raining and i need to go out to buy something.I only leave for a few minutes and when i come back i see a nurse doing something to my baby. After this i only remember arguing with the father of my child(in the dream he is not my bf) and i am crying because i can't find the baby. He says i'm exagerating because our baby is fine and he shows her to me(I think it was a girl) When i try to take her in my arms i notice that she's not my child and i start to cry again. Then the doctors come and tell me that someone replaced my daughter with another little girl.
How is it possible to feel this if i never had kids before?? i can now imagine how a mother feels when her child is taken away or dies because it's just awfull!It can't be explained by words.

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posted August 16, 2012 02:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for whereabouts     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Many times a baby in a dream represents a creation of yours, such as "This project she's been working on is her baby."

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posted August 17, 2012 10:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for geea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's not the first time i dream about this. I've had other dreams of children, usually small and i am always loosing them in one way or another. I had one where there was this little girl and we died togheter(at the end of the dream) we jumped off the roof of a building.
ps:i don't have any projects/plans right now.

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posted August 17, 2012 12:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Junethird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Losing a child in a dream is feeling insecure... In real life you may feel or are projecting that you are loosing something close to your heart... Anxiety for lack of better words. Maybe even guilt... Its exposure, manifestation in real life could be life altering.

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posted August 17, 2012 03:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Junethird:
Losing a child in a dream is feeling insecure... In real life you may feel or are projecting that you are loosing something close to your heart... Anxiety for lack of better words. Maybe even guilt... Its exposure, manifestation in real life could be life altering.

yes,i know you are right. It's just they are so overwhelming for me and the pain i feel in these dreams...
my first thought was that the dreams activated that maternal instinct all women have...

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posted August 17, 2012 08:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Junethird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by geea:
yes,i know you are right. It's just they are so overwhelming for me and the pain i feel in these dreams...
my first thought was that the dreams activated that maternal instinct all women have...

Feelings are a good thing... You have a deep empathetic heart and maybe you need to use this new found understanding to get closer to children in your immediate surrounding, maybe have your own... The pain of not having your own yet is manifesting somehow...

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posted August 18, 2012 02:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Junethird:
Feelings are a good thing... You have a deep empathetic heart and maybe you need to use this new found understanding to get closer to children in your immediate surrounding, maybe have your own... The pain of not having your own yet is manifesting somehow...

yep..i don't know if i'm mature enough to be a mother;
i'm only 22 but if it comes i won't say no. In these dreams i feel good and i like being the mother but in reality i'm so scared. I can't handle babies
when my sister gave birth to her daughter, she was born premature and she was very little! so one time i saw her crying and i freaked out! i couldn't stand seeing her like this and i started to cry too!
@Junethird, i have chiron in cancer opposed saturn in capricorn( i don't know how tight is the orb) From what i know chiron is the wounded healer,right? does this mean i have some sort of a "wound" related to this?

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posted August 18, 2012 02:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Junethird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by geea:
yep..i don't know if i'm mature enough to be a mother;
i'm only 22 but if it comes i won't say no. In these dreams i feel good and i like being the mother but in reality i'm so scared. I can't handle babies
when my sister gave birth to her daughter, she was born premature and she was very little! so one time i saw her crying and i freaked out! i couldn't stand seeing her like this and i started to cry too!
@Junethird, i have chiron in cancer opposed saturn in capricorn( i don't know how tight is the orb) From what i know chiron is the wounded healer,right? does this mean i have some sort of a "wound" related to this?

Age is just a number, The time of mother hood is different for everyone. But when you are ready you will know maybe thats what your dream is about finding out how to rid your fears of motherhood and how to deal.

Yes chiron is the wounded healer. My brother has it in cancer and what i learned from another LL member, theManticore, was that it proves difficult to nurture and comfort yourself. Family hurts, cancer is represented by the moon and moon is mother or family females in general. Cancer rules the home aswell so home related issues of a sense of belonging and longing for something more stable etc.

What house is your chiron in?

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posted August 18, 2012 03:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes, i can totally relate to this :"Cancer rules the home aswell so home related issues of a sense of belonging and longing for something more stable etc."
mine is in the 9th house.

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posted August 18, 2012 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Junethird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mmm... Interesting the house of expansion...

Do you have a hard time letting go of your family ideals of what if and this is how it should be or should have been?

Do you find it difficult to seperate your childhood/familiar ties and move on to forge and be open to other ideals.

Do you hold on to the past alot? Good/bad

Can you make changes without the influence of your family/childhood memories... Can you relate to other ways not familiar to you and allow them to influence you so you can grow and expand... I guess evolve.

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posted August 18, 2012 05:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Junethird:
Mmm... Interesting the house of expansion...

Do you have a hard time letting go of your family ideals of what if and this is how it should be or should have been?

Do you find it difficult to seperate your childhood/familiar ties and move on to forge and be open to other ideals.

Do you hold on to the past alot? Good/bad

Can you make changes without the influence of your family/childhood memories... Can you relate to other ways not familiar to you and allow them to influence you so you can grow and expand... I guess evolve.


funny that you ask that..my thinking has always been independent from that of my family and i always wanted to separate from it. I just had this urge to leave far from them and at 14 i even lived alone for 6months, then back with them and then again a few months by myself. Of course family background affected me in some ways but i tried not to let myself influenced.

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Ra
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posted August 20, 2012 04:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello geea

I like what Junethird has put forth as possibilities. In addition, I feel that much of what you are/have been experiencing with your family and with these dreams is rooted in past life experience. Do you feel the same?

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geea
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posted August 20, 2012 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hello geea

I like what Junethird has put forth as possibilities. In addition, I feel that much of what you are/have been experiencing with your family and with these dreams is rooted in past life experience. Do you feel the same?


Hi Ra ^^
Yes, i think so too. My sinastry with both of my parents has heavy saturn, pluto, moon,8th house and 12th aspects. But,i really think that everything that has happened, helped me grow up. I just try to see a good side in everything

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posted August 22, 2012 04:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Few days ago I dreamed that I was at least 5-6 months pregnant! First I found it strange, but then I remember I liked it and the feeling of being pregnant! Any ideos what it means?

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