posted October 30, 2012 09:49 AM            

Then, there's a boy in my waking life who likes me (and creeps the hell out of me)... In my dream there was a tornado warning, and I saw him entering the stairway, so I went there as well to seek cover. The tornado didn't come, just some stronger winds...

posted November 04, 2012 05:02 AM            

Because there was nothing wrong with the tooth, and you weren't freaking out about it, I think this dream begins with the suggestion that change/transition (tooth simply came out) is part of the subject, as it has been before.

The dream then issues a warning about possible emotional distress/difficulty (tornado/strong winds), possibly concerning the boy that likes you, but because the dream transitions to J, I feel there is a connection being drawn here by your unconscious mind, extending the warning into the J situation. It could be suggested that you are choosing to see the brighter side (selecting yellow-orange), with the connotation that perhaps the darker side is being ignored. For instance, you question the mention of the "certain lady" and wonder if he has a girlfriend, when the book was written, etc., but then you notice your ring on his finger, and all questions are forgotten. The ring is yours … does this mean he has you "wrapped around his finger"? Are you blinded by your attraction to him?

Altogether, I think the dream is a warning, so proceed with caution!~

But I could be wrong.

These dreams concerning J … there is always some warning or some peculiar thing attached to them.

I seem to have developed preconceived notions about these dreams with J and am not sure I am interpreting them objectively. To me, each dream in this series appears to be saying the same thing, more or less, so I'm not sure if how I interpret them is valid or if I am coloring them with my own preconceptions. I acknowledge that there are different possible ways to look at certain elements of your dreams that would be more positive, warm and fuzzy, so it would be very easy to tell you exactly what you want to hear. But I don't see them that way and am beginning to wonder if I am entirely mistaken.

posted November 04, 2012 09:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Ra:
Hello Emsie

Because there was nothing wrong with the tooth, and you weren't freaking out about it, I think this dream begins with the suggestion that change/transition (tooth simply came out) is part of the subject, as it has been before.

The dream then issues a warning about possible emotional distress/difficulty (tornado/strong winds), possibly concerning the boy that likes you, but because the dream transitions to J, I feel there is a connection being drawn here by your unconscious mind, extending the warning into the J situation. It could be suggested that you are choosing to see the brighter side (selecting yellow-orange), with the connotation that perhaps the darker side is being ignored. For instance, you question the mention of the "certain lady" and wonder if he has a girlfriend, when the book was written, etc., but then you notice your ring on his finger, and all questions are forgotten. The ring is yours … does this mean he has you "wrapped around his finger"? Are you blinded by your attraction to him?

Altogether, I think the dream is a warning, so proceed with caution!~

But I could be wrong.

These dreams concerning J … there is always some warning or some peculiar thing attached to them.

I seem to have developed preconceived notions about these dreams with J and am not sure I am interpreting them objectively. To me, each dream in this series appears to be saying the same thing, more or less, so I'm not sure if how I interpret them is valid or if I am coloring them with my own preconceptions. I acknowledge that there are different possible ways to look at certain elements of your dreams that would be more positive, warm and fuzzy, so it would be very easy to tell you exactly what you want to hear. But I don't see them that way and am beginning to wonder if I am entirely mistaken.

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Hello Ra!

I really like your way of thinking, because I think that's really what I need! In a few words - You keep me on the ground
There were too many times when I fell off the horse, and fell so hard it really hurt... I chased illusions and "what if"s, and then I always got hurt, no wonder...

(In the dream the small things were all yellow-orange colored, and I was selecting them by shape, there weren't any darker ones. And when I saw the ring, although I didn't really ask, but thought something like "What does my ring "do" on his finger?!")

As for the situation with J... I don't know why, but when he's around me, or even at school, I always feel huge energies rushing through me, I can't even eat, and I have to take Vitamine B6 pills to calm myself down! First, this really scared me, that "Why am I feeling like this?!"... These days I only ask "Why is there so much intensity?!"
When I don't see him for days (now I'm having a Fall break) I am totally calm - but this might be because maybe I freeze my feelings?! Hmm... I'd say I control myself a bit not to do any mistakes again like before...

Actually, I was thinking about if this could be another Karmic thing...
After I broke up with my ex, I had another potential mate (with the same intensity of rushing electricity, ...) in my workplace, but then I had to leave everything behind, due to my decision to go back to school (I was with my ex at that time, and he was the other reason why I decided it) - it was hard to leave the whole stuff behind, especially when I had the chance to be happy... "What if"s again, but I had to go, because that workplace wasn't worthy of me (I can do better than that, get a better job, I don't want to settle for less!)

What do you think, is it possible that because of the failure of love between me and T, the Karmic lesson T supposed to "teach" me might have shifted to J?! I know this sounds a bit strange...
(T is a Baptist, and true to his religion, so I guess you know what that means... Maybe it could have been about strength)

posted November 04, 2012 09:58 AM            

I had a dream in which I was in some kind of competition. I was a runner, and the finish line was my stairway. I was getting slower, but didn't want to give up, so I continued to run. It was a slow motion-kind of thing. Then a homeless man appeared and seemed like he was following me. He went by normal speed, just walking calmly, while I was struggling to get back to my original speed. Finally I managed to make it to the finish line, then I saw some very juicy delicious grapes.

posted November 07, 2012 04:27 AM            

Burnt hands in dreams ... the meaning depends on the context ... something that could be "too hot to handle", or maybe there is a danger of "getting burned" while trying to handle something, or maybe there is an inability to handle something.

The runner dream suggests that you have the will and desire (not give up) to reach higher, develop, grow (stairway) but are having difficulty making progress (slow). It could be suggested that this difficulty, the impeding force, has to do with your relationships with men and an inability or difficulty in figuring it out, pinning it down, putting a finger on it (homeless man). But, as in the dream, keep trying, keep pushing forward, and you will get there to enjoy the fruits of your labor.

The last dream, I'm not sure … could simply be a reflection of what happened, or maybe it is something you need to forgive, release, and heal from. It didn't go good because of a guy, did it?

posted November 07, 2012 09:16 AM            

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Originally posted by Ra:
If a karmic lesson isn't learned through contact with one person, then I suppose the lesson will continue to repeat through contact with others until it is learned.

Burnt hands in dreams ... the meaning depends on the context ... something that could be "too hot to handle", or maybe there is a danger of "getting burned" while trying to handle something, or maybe there is an inability to handle something.

The runner dream suggests that you have the will and desire (not give up) to reach higher, develop, grow (stairway) but are having difficulty making progress (slow). It could be suggested that this difficulty, the impeding force, has to do with your relationships with men and an inability or difficulty in figuring it out, pinning it down, putting a finger on it (homeless man). But, as in the dream, keep trying, keep pushing forward, and you will get there to enjoy the fruits of your labor.

The last dream, I'm not sure … could simply be a reflection of what happened, or maybe it is something you need to forgive, release, and heal from. It didn't go good because of a guy, did it?

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J had his hands burned - while reading from the book... I thought it was some kind of disease, but then I realized burnt hands, because they were wrinkled (just like when a snake sheds) and reddish colored...

Again, you are really spot on, I have a pretty difficult time figuring out what the so called Karmic lesson could be, or I even go back to my past to search for answers, where these lessons come from... But I constantly work on it, yet I don't have The answer I am really looking for!

About my last dream... It's funny, because when I dreamed that, it was exactly one year ago that we had the biggest blow-up ever! And actually I couldn't stop wondering, because when I shared this dream with you all I noticed that she blocked me on fb!
- She said so many nasty things to me, even if she was the source of problems and I really didn't deserve those words! She never takes responsibility for anything, even for her own words and actions... And if she blocked me that could mean she's still mad, and this could show another Karmic situation in my opinion, because with those nasty stuff she also said she "won't ever care about me and this whole quarrel" - just like if I was a "nobody"(then I was mad for a while), but now it seems like the tides have turned... I forgave her, although I'll never forget what kind of person she was/is, I released my anger, but she seems struggling... If she wasn't mad, she wouldn't bother seeing me sometimes on fb (we weren't friends on the site anymore)
I simply can't understand her logic. There's a girl who she is very jealous of, and also blocked that girl... but because of jealousy?! I can clearly see that she can't cope with or can't control her emotions...

posted November 09, 2012 01:15 AM            

I saw J and a colleague at the school clearing up fallen leaves and they were doing other things as well, kind of handyman stuff... J was wearing a blue t-shirt (the kind of blue when you write the reply, at the "message icon" part there's a blue heart - that kind of blue)
Then he noticed I was watching him, then I felt he was talking about me with his colleague... Then he also took glances at me several times...

posted November 13, 2012 05:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Ra:
How did you feel about his attention? The different blues in the dream suggest different or mixed feelings.

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It felt a little bit strange and uncomfortable at the beginning, but then it started to ease...

posted November 27, 2012 02:08 PM            

I went next to a pond where I saw 2 balls floating on the surface... One was a yellow ball with a smily face on it, and the other was a light purple/light fuchsia one with a sad face on it, then it turned into a smile.

Then I was in a shopping mall, where I used the escalators to go to the top. I wanted to get back to the 1st floor, so I decided to get back. I don't know which floorit was, but when I stood at the beginning of one of the escalators, it was barely moving, or I'd say it was stuck. There were a few people on it.
Suddenly the escalator fell down, but I was able to catch and hold the handrails as they were closer to me unlike in waking life.
I was hanging there and survived, but other weren't so lucky and I guess they all died.
The dream ended while I was hanging there and saw people come for my rescue...

posted December 03, 2012 04:31 AM            

In the last dream you decide to "go back" to the first floor after having reached the top. It is only when you "go back" that we see a problem with the changes suggested by these dreams. The escalator is stuck, suggesting that you are feeling "stuck". It then collapses. Perhaps your subconscious is telling you to "stay on top", to accept the changes which are occurring.

Are you resisting a change?

posted December 03, 2012 10:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Ra:
From bats to butterflies, from sad face to smiley, from one floor to another, change is the predominant theme. The first two are kind of naturally occurring, and from negative to positive … from dark (bat) to light (butterfly), from sad to happy, and the colors suggest growth and expansion (green, yellow, purple). Air (bats/butterflies) and water (pond) could suggest that the change has to do with thoughts and feelings.

In the last dream you decide to "go back" to the first floor after having reached the top. It is only when you "go back" that we see a problem with the changes suggested by these dreams. The escalator is stuck, suggesting that you are feeling "stuck". It then collapses. Perhaps your subconscious is telling you to "stay on top", to accept the changes which are occurring.

Are you resisting a change?

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posted December 05, 2012 04:41 AM            

Thank you for sharing your dreams.

posted December 09, 2012 08:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Ra:
I'm glad that made sense to you.

Thank you for sharing your dreams.

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I have a three-pack to share!

I was at a lake with a girl, and I remember I said something like "I really fancy that guy", I stepped into the lake, but then I backed off and came out of it. It was at night, or it seemed like night-time...

Then in another scene I tried to play a role, but I couldn't! It was attached to World War 2 (I don't want to mention other details as it would/might offend others)

After that the scene went back to the lake I was at with the girl, but this time I saw a God-like person (it was really like Poseidon) and I was floating on something with him - The sky was black (or I'd say rather dark) and there were waves, but suddenly the sky turned strong orange/pinkish (like when the sun rises or sets) and the waves were definitely shrinking!

As I see a lot of water, (according to you) could this still mean 'business' with emotions?

posted December 17, 2012 07:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Ra:
All of your thoughts are certainly possible. The first lake scene seems more like a representation of cleansing or purification, whereas the other lake scene does seem to be more about the clearing of emotional "business". Your take on role-playing and being yourself makes a lot of sense. What this all refers to specifically, I don't know.

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I can tell that finally I think I managed to defeat those old emotional patterns which prevented me from growth!

posted December 29, 2012 07:37 AM            

The first was with J, we were in classroom just the two of us, and I think that must have been some kind of exam, because everything was nearly quiet, but we also talked to each other...

Then some random people were chasing me on the street, and I remember that a huge fat boy caught me and wanted to beat me up. I also saw a policeman talking to someone so he couldn't see that I was in trouble, because he was distracted, but at the end I managed to sit into the car!

The third dream was about me travelling by bus with a few people. Te road was torn into two parts like after an eartquake, and I remember that the bus went by a lake, and suddenly the soil started to move, so the bus fell into the lake. A guy next to me shouted "Jump!", then I was shouting in the water to others while swimming to swim and not to give up!

posted December 30, 2012 09:42 AM            

So, the first scene was in a school (again), lecture with J, and there were only a few people (including me), after that we went to the corridor and he wanted to kiss me, so we decided to go to the attic where we wanted to hide, and there was a caracole we wanted to hide behind, but there still were a few people, so we decided to go to the rooftop. As soon as I opened the door, the scene shifted...

I was running down a small hill and up a smaller one, then I entered a playground where I was swinging on a swing. The whole scene was so nostalgic, I went back to the things I used to do when I was a child. Watching the sky while swinging, running down and up those hills - also in my waking life!

The third scene was back in the school, lecture with J again, and there were some visitors, important people like professors or something, and they wanted to pick two people for something - it was like they were checking out the results of exams...

I was wearing a white T-shirt, and then J said "The girl in the white T-shirt", but I didn't go out, instead the girl behind me did, because I looked at her - she was wearing a light blue jeans shirt.
Then I saw and heard J cussing like he wanted me to go out and do something and not the girl in blue shirt...

posted January 09, 2013 04:11 AM            

The next bunch of dreams (from 12/30) are likely a reflection of your desire to be noticed/recognized by J and the emotional energy variations that go along with that desire (running up and down/swining).

posted January 09, 2013 09:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Ra:
The first bunch of dreams (from 12/29) seem to be reflections of everyday hopes (J), stresses (being chased), emotional business (bus in lake/swimming), and possibly some reflection of self (vain girl).

The next bunch of dreams (from 12/30) are likely a reflection of your desire to be noticed/recognized by J and the emotional energy variations that go along with that desire (running up and down/swining).

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I agree with everything, especially the "swinging up and down" theme... I really feel like that these days,one minute I have doubts, the other I consider everything is alright, no worries, but then again I start to have doubts... It's like running in circles! All I know is that my mind creates these doubts, so I wouldn't say they're my real feelings... And I feel trapped because of these doubts. I'm wondering if my latest dream could be about this feeling of being trapped...

For a brief moment I was trapped in the restroom of my school, then I was trapped in a cellar. I wanted to escape through the window, and there was a girl out there trying to tell me not to climb and to stay inside. But I didn't listen to her, so I squeezed my body through the window.
Then I won some kind of competition at school, but it seemed like there were no other contestants, only me. I claimed my prize, then J came to congratulate me and he looked at me in a way like "You really earned it!" and smiled.

posted January 10, 2013 03:54 AM            

I know from the previous interpretations that storms mean emotional upheaval, but I can't decide if it's connected to my fav motorcycle rider, J, or the thought of marriage! Or still, it is the doubts I have in myself?!

posted January 23, 2013 04:30 AM            

The girl probably does represent self doubt, and the dream suggests that you are struggling against it. You wanted to be acknowledged/recognized by J.

The dream from 1/10 ...

Storms do usually indicate emotional upheaval, but in this dream, as in many others you have had, the storms are in the distance and/or do no damage. This suggests that you have not yet been caught up in any significant emotional disturbance, but that it does loom as a possibility, no doubt dependent upon the choices you make. It is likely connected to your thoughts, hopes, fears, and doubts about love and relationships in general, and perhaps particularly concerning J at the time of this dream.

How are you doing? You okay?