posted December 03, 2012 10:35 AM            

can someone please help me with this strange dream i had a few days ago ?

i saw myself at my parent's home which is in another country . i felt there were other people in the house but i could only sense i was around my father and mother .
i saw my father going past the kitchen and suddenly he witnesses fire in the kitchen that has just started . he looks around for a second and two and decides there is no time to wait and put off the fire as he smells gasoline leakage . so he just rushes to another room where i am sitting and also my mom and he litrelly drags us both out of the rooms and asks us to run away holding our arms tight.

i am screaming that my grandparents are inside and we have to get them too but my father says that we don't have time to do so as my grandparents are sleeping and we have to let them go.

in a hurry we open the main gate of the house , rush outside to the street and boom !! a sound as if a bomb exploded in the house, the walls are still intact but insides are on fire . we are standing outside , all three of us, looking at the house that is on fire. from outside it's still the same , the walls are still standing and holding everything inside. but insides are on huge fire.

strangely , it's a huge 2 storey house with at least 11 bedrooms and my parents live on the ground floor and the upper storey has been rented out by a couple who lives with childrena nd their grandchildren. nothing happens to the upper floor , they don't even know that the floor on the ground is burning . none of them is injured , even me and my parents are safe standing outside in the street watching our house on fire and there is a huge sense of loss , as if all we had managed to create for us was lost . we didn't have anything left to bank upon. it was strange !!

can someone kind please explain this dream and tell what does it mean ?

thank you so much in advance for your time

posted December 04, 2012 06:16 PM            

This dream could suggest that you are concerned about something going on with your parents. It could be suggested that you have suddenly become aware of (explosion) something, perhaps a choice or a decision (kitchen) your father has made which concerns you. Or perhaps you are concerned about your father's ability to make good choices in general?

Is something like that going on?

posted December 04, 2012 09:51 PM            

i have come to know through tarot that there is a testing time coming up in the family. and it will involve me , my partner and my parents . my partner had difficulties getting along with my father in the past due to misunderstandings but all has changed now. they seem to have started liking each other and are now more comfortable in each other's company than how it was before. my partner has hurt me in the past and it has hurt my parents immensely. my partner did it to me because of my father because he never liked my father.
now i have been told that i will going through difficult time with both the parties and it will be life changing . i have been thinking of this struggle constantly lately.

what does this dream signify ? people are saying something has to go out of my life for me to move on peacefully ... i am not getting it ! what is it that needs to go away ? and does it have any connection to this dream ? does it mean there will be another conflict in the family because of my partner and father ?
both of them are aggressive personalities and lose their temper on a whim .. it's like one is fuel and the other is fire !!!

what does this dream suggest in the light of this information i have given you ?

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Originally posted by Ra:
Hello piggybank

This dream could suggest that you are concerned about something going on with your parents. It could be suggested that you have suddenly become aware of (explosion) something, perhaps a choice or a decision (kitchen) your father has made which concerns you. Or perhaps you are concerned about your father's ability to make good choices in general?

Is something like that going on?

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posted December 10, 2012 04:20 AM            

One thing you said bothers me ... your partner hurt you because he didn't like your father? What is that all about? Sounds like trouble to me.

posted December 11, 2012 10:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Ra:
I don't know anything about Tarot, but in light of what you have given, your dream seems to suggest that there are still fires burning between all of you. Your partner was not in the dream, so maybe this is more about you and your family.

One thing you said bothers me ... your partner hurt [b]you because he didn't like your father? What is that all about? Sounds like trouble to me.

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posted December 11, 2012 06:06 PM            

I'd like to give my interpretation of your dream too if I may.

I'll just write the impressions down as I read through how you have transcribed your dream.

There is concern in your family about affording preschool for a couple of your nephews and perhaps younger females but there is still an emphasis on more effort put into the males status. The greatest concern seems to be falling on your father. He feels responsible and perhaps there is an element of ethnicity issues over it, or is it because of your family name or racial/cultural stuff that the father feels the family is not supported enough through the country's infrastructure etc. But I think this may be a bit of an excuse. He gets explosive over this past issue and it is like a permanent gripe with him that anything he can't afford or that doesn't work out, is because of the political/governmental bias or preferences that do not go his way. He can get explosive on this, and the rest of the family including you feel you have to go along with agreeing and supporting his rants and excuses, but it seems you may be confused about the true nature of these suspicions and you wonder if there is any real substance to the oppression etc that your father tends to go to as an excuse for everything. Though your father has worked hard, he has heavily relied on his ability to communicate and to make the most of opportunity - so in a way he tends to have expectations from society to meet his needs without too much effort on his part (sorry, I've probably offended you, but hope not).

You have listened to the stories throughout your growing up and you wonder if in some ways your family including grandparents, were in fact more of the oppressors, and there is a slight feel of shame or embarassment running like a thread through your lives.

The family's living standard is ok but perhaps there is mismanagement of finances. Because the family tends to spend on what they enjoy and complain or feel poor when it is something like education etc and they feel this should be almost free. In the past generations the family has not put a high priority on education, except for a few members, and when it was expected over the last couple of generations to improve the education of the children, it was new to the family and they felt well if you want us to be educated then the government/society has to pay for it, because perhaps it was initially. But these days, there is this push for great preschools and early education for little ones, and perhaps your father has felt that this is too expensive. Though he is liking the idea of this modern type of life these days and likes the idea of children being educated in nice beginnings with lots of interesting things to do and he thinks the world will be a better place for having the little ones start off in such nice education and play.

The world as your father's and grandparent's generation knew it has changed, your family can sense this, and much of the values and beliefs you all grew up on is under pressure with new reforms and ways of living/values. The whole family can sense that the parent's world is outmoded, and your father in particular is coming in to a time when he is more of an equal family member rather than a patriarch and this is a huge change in the family's consciousness. In many ways much of your father's authority was based on fear and reprisals, and some how the rug is being pulled from under this approach. The challenge is for him to take up a new role as the generous and good humoured grandfather that the family are proud of, rather than the explosive tyrant - I think your father is going through some kind of change and it could outwardly have a health concern involved and this may have overrun an existing health issue with your mother. So what I am saying, perhaps your mother has had a gynaecological issue that required her to modify her workload, and this in turn put pressure on their relationship and your father because he expects a great deal out of her. The stress will play itself out in your father getting even more attention through a health issue which I think will be stomach related and is combination of too much food and alcohol, and he perhaps smokes too.

I don't think the relationship between your parents is what it was. Your mother may offset this by spending more time with her friends and the females in the family, and maybe could end up spending a lot of time with you.

posted December 11, 2012 07:11 PM            

thank you so much for sharing your inputs. i have no idea about the prior generations and how they have conducted themselves in the past . but the culture i belong to is greatly male dominated and i have seen a great deal of control that men exercise over females to make them feel superior . however i have always been a person who has denied to accept any such practice and has always been tagged a rebel in my family when it comes to comforming to rules that are prejudiced and biased and give more authority and previledge to men than women. you have described my father well in terms of how he explodes when something doesn't happen the way he wants and it has always always happened that every time he does so and i am around i would get into a major clash with him either verbally or mentally and this is the reason why i have never gotten well with him ever in life even though i love him as a father as he was a very doting father always. i as well as my mother always expected him to be more considerate towards others feelings , especially of women folk because they are generally sensitive in nature but we never got him understand it.

i have no clue about money issues and why he would be upset over spending on education of female children. i have no nieces or pephews and there is no child in our family who needs financial help from my father for their education.i have never known what he thought about my education or my brother's . i was always more close to mom and she also never shared anything about expenses.

i have been having these intuitive messages for quite some time now that i need to travel , go back to my parents and take care of certain things/issues. and it will happen suddenly. after reading you i could sense that it might have to do with my father's health that i would need to rush to them to take care of them . but i have a feeling that it will be a testing time emotionally as well as mentally. oh all this while i was feeling that it has to do with my mother and that she will fall sick or something and i might need to rush back to her. now it seems it's my father who will need help with his health issue. do you think it could be fatal for him if something happens ? you have described my mother well. i think she did have a gynaecological issue in the past but i was young then and we didn't talk much about it back then but as i recall she did have such an issue in the past. i am not sure if she is still dealing with the same or not.
honestly , it seems that you have given me a platform to think and discuss what has been going on inside me for quite a while now. i have been feeling that i need to take a new journey, take up something that could bring this hidden anger and frustration out of my system that comes from past from this life as well as many other lives i believe. i need to get it out of my system . and all these intuitions , feelings, dreams started at the same time and there is a great mix of information that i know at present but i am not able to piece it together. but i know i am heading towards something major in life.

since you have picked upon so many things about my family , can you shed some light on what i am having in terms of these emotions and intuitive messages ? is there a karma that i need to go through to settle things among our souls ? to make us free from these tangles of subconscious stirrings ??

i would be happy if you could share your insight on this issue. it seems to go deeper than i had thought it would.