posted February 08, 2013 10:35 PM            

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It's just the two of us and I'm helping them assemble a treasure chest (a bronze color). Then I take one end they the other, as we fetch the chest between buildings. Suddenly we come upon a barrier. I suggest we sit the chest on the ground while I go find something to make hoisting the chest over the barrier easier.

As I turn to go look for the object, frenemy lifts the chest all by themself, with ease, over the barrier. At this moment I realized my help wasn't necessary. I didn't bother trying to catch up with them...then I woke up.
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posted February 09, 2013 07:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Usually one talks to a frenemy. How bad is the rift?

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It's a rift made of stubborn resistance. Frenemy has built a wall around themselves, but wants me to break it down and capture them. I want them to dismantle it themselves and invite me in.

posted February 19, 2013 04:33 AM            

The dream kind of reflects the dynamic of the relationship. It's a give-and-take, where you feel you are doing all the giving and frenemy is doing all the taking.

You say you want frenemy to dismantle the walls, yet I find it ironic that in the dream you are helping fenemy to assemble walls, of a sort. What does this say? Perhaps there is something more valuable in this relationship than you are aware of (treasure chest)?

In the dream you realized your help wasn't necessary … this must mean something. Perhaps you are trying too hard to be "frenemies"? Perhaps frenemy isn't the olny one being stubborn?

posted February 23, 2013 12:28 PM            

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In the dream you realized your help wasn't necessary … this must mean something.

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After this dream new RL info came to light. Frenemy & BFF had a falling out. No third party would tell me what caused it. I was hoping the answer might be in the chest.

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It's just the two of us and I'm helping them assemble a treasure chest (a bronze color). Then I take one end they the other, as we fetch the chest between buildings. Suddenly we come upon a barrier.

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In RL there is building X and building Y. In the dream I help them assemble the chest in building Y, then fetch it to building X. It was in the courtyard of building X that we came upon the barrier, and I stepped back & didn't follow.

In RL, all the drama took place in building X where we congregate. Since the dream circumstances have caused frenemy to spend much time in building Y.