posted June 26, 2013 03:11 PM            

But anyways, back to the dream. So I was going down on him, and starting to feel uncomfortable. I can't remember if he had 'finished' or not. I just know that he left to use the bathroom. At which point I was freaking out. Horrified with myself and trying to get dressed as soon as possible and leave, which I did. So I was outside where I was still able to see the bedroom.

The friend comes out to talk to me. First he says, "I guess we should talk. Maybe figure out each others likes and dislikes." I ignore him and say it was a big mistake, and what about my boyfriend? The friend was taken aback. "Oh, I didn't know you guys were serious or even sure you were dating." I start to cry heavily. I loose it and just start screaming "I can't loose him, I love him.....," over and over again. The friend stops me and says "I don't think I can keep this a secret from him." I nod back, that only makes since since my friend did cheat on him.

So I start freaking out amongst myself. What should I say, do? I would loose him over it for sure.

Next thing I know my bf makes it to the house earlier than I expected and starts chatting with some friends. I notice how happy he looks. He comes over to say hi for a minute, and is very sweet and affectionate, then walks back to his friends.

I contemplate more and meet these two girls. One of then gives me a really hard time. Like she knows I did something terrible, but she's not sure what. I make up some excuse..and thats all I know in the dream.

Now what's strange to me about it is that I have a very happy and satisfying relationship. My boyfriend's great in and out of bed and its not as though we've been together for a long time either (less than a year). Additionally, I almost never get sex dreams. Prior to this year I can't remember having a single one. This year though, I've had a few of them, and I'm sad to say none of which has been about my bf.

It just puzzles me. I really don't think it has anything to do with any latent feeling towards his friend. And the dream, as you can tell had a lot more to do with guilt over cheating than the cheating itself. Any idea's why I might dream this?

posted August 01, 2013 04:28 AM            

Sorry, this dream slipped by ...

Were you feeling guilty about something at the time of this dream?

Have you had any insights into this dream since you had it?

posted August 03, 2013 11:49 PM            

I have a scorp moon conj Pluto by 4 degrees in my 12 house, so maybe that's why?

A few weeks after this dream though, my bf had a series of nightmares. One which included me cheating on him. Though, I don't know the details of it.

You can imagine how bad and guilty I felt about that, because I guess in my sleep state I did do that.

Though, I do kinda agree with randall and Emsie that it probably has more to do with my own personal issue(s)...I just don't know what they are. I do feel weird around his friend(s) though. Because my childhood friend did cheat on his friend...and maybe I feel guilty or scared of being judged by association.

It's so weird to me that I had these series of marriage related dreams, to a series of cheating related dreams, and now last night another marriage related dream.

I never had these kind of dreams in previous years. It was a rare occurance if I ever had a relationship (friend, family, boyfriend) type dream. My dreams use to always be centered around houses, and locations. They were always enviornmental before now.

posted August 04, 2013 10:42 PM            

I'm very happy in my in my relationship, but I do find myself having to explain my actions a lot - as my boyfriend often worries, gets concerned, and appears suspicious of me at times. Maybe it relates to that in some way?

posted August 05, 2013 04:29 AM            

These dreams could be seen to deal with issues of "expressing openly or honestly". And there could be a link between the relationship with your mother and your bf relationship.

Food for thought.