posted July 04, 2013 03:52 AM            

Hello, i know everyone is busy, or away, so thank you in advance for anyone that can 'translate' this super strange dream.

It all started as i met this girl that isn't that much going on about this guy....then i noticed this is a guy who used me real bad in real life (nothing abusive, just emotionally and something else i wont say here)then cut me out twice, treating me like dirt, while treating everyone else like something oh so precious.

now in this dream, the girl was his fiance...i kept trying to make sure "his wife," and she'd go "no his fiance don't know when it'd work with him being away alot" he is and lives on a different country.

okay now in real life this 'thing' got married like only a few months after he cut me out....ie he was dating this other girl who wasn't in the dream, long before he wanted to see how much he could get out of me.

so back to the dream, it was this girls birthday a few days ago supposedly (btw i have no idea who she is, only saw her in the dream) and he was taking her out for a treat in a super chic restaurant that in reality serves really good real French food....now i knew this was the guy for sure. she even showed pictures. she had no idea who i was though, even though next thing i knew i was in her house. (i had met her at a u-turn somewhere near her house, and can't remember how we became so chatty or what made her trust me)

okay moving on, she was now so excitedly telling me about this so romantic guy....i was going to ask her if she has him on FB or something, where everyone puts a picture of his partner as you do...or that at least she'll have a clue, but at least dragged it on, with a smile on my face all the time, at how stupid someone who thought he is so smart is (in the dream at least)....i asked her where he lived, while here, and she told me between point X and A....basically an area between my city and the beach of the next one, that is the equivelant of saying 'no where land, between too nice areas'

okay so she was getting ready for that special evening he had in store for her, along with many of their friends, and i was feeling '****** ' at how i had further confirmation even in dreams that i was the only one in the world he treated like crap, when in the waking world i did nothing wrong at all. moreover i was the only one who ever crossed his path who wanted to do something right for him....but he is born on the 16th of his month (numerologically guess there is no help with him eventually falling from his high and might tower...)

okay so i finally left, wishing her well, and called a taxi (in real life i try to avoid driving as much as possible so that's ok)
feeling really angry actually the driver asks me where i want to go, and i notice i am nearby a port that has some art supply store, i tell him whatever to take me there, even though in reality i don't care much, i was going to check out something i was thinking off....

now the thing is the driver was super crazy driving at a real high speed like a mad man...am usually complacent, but he was driving so fast, i actually told him to slow down a bit, but it was too late, we were near the sea, and when i looked down one of my worst re-occuring nightmares since i was so little took place, the car had gone off the bridge street whatever, as it had no rails(the path we were on), and was falling into the sea, while the driver laughed in fear i think he managed an 'oops' but looked real scared.

now i have no idea how i managed the next part but i had somehow gotten out of the car while it was falling and landed onto some random floating workers housing, could be an oil drill, house or something, that was in the middle of the sea...i was still scared but angry at my 'lucky escape' and not even sure if i had really escaped. i was in no more than a room, and standing on a platform, there was an open door, and below it was the sea water i thought i had escaped from, and was still scared i would sink it, as was a bit dizzy from the fall, so was calling for help to ask someone to close that door, and stuck in my place, fearing to move while at it, as well, i didn't want to fall into that water after taking all these risks to not sink....finally someone just passing by on that platform closed that door, but by then i don't know what happened next, because i thankfully woke up!

oh one little change when i was a kid, i was in a car that sank of a port at night. in this dream there was a long minute of nothing but vast blue sky and sea all over (ie daytime probably around noon)

can anyone help me decipher this dream please

posted July 04, 2013 07:12 AM            

yip life will never be like it 'could have beem' bleh... -_-

okay l8r, got some emails to reply to ahora

posted July 05, 2013 10:26 AM            

Part 2:
Right... So for this guy. He is either showing up as your so-called inner lover OR it is still in relations to this issue. I expect the last one. The girl (his fiancée) is you though. I expect her to be your ‘shadow aspect’. Also: still some ties left, because ‘you’ are engaged here.

And the guy is away, right? Now if this guy is your inner lover and thus the one who should help you as an aspect in living out your passion/creativity, etc.) it tells me you are out of touch with this part in your life. Your helper is away. But I expect it to be about what happened between you two.
But there seems to be some contact, because your shadow self (!) and him are going for dinner (still taking in some ideas that are tied to him).
What does French food represent to you?
The Birthday is also a ‘celebration’. (but perhaps in this case also highlights the ties you still have to this event. It has been some time ago (a birthday is once a year), but ‘still going strong’, another year of celebration.
You were in her house (your house! Your sense of self).
Meeting at a U-turn: trying to turn something around (turning point)/getting confronted with the same issues.
Pictures also relate to memories...
You think she is stupid, right? So perhaps she is showing you about yourself in regards to this. (How could I have this happen!?)
He lives in ‘nowhere land’. Could be referring that this experience still affects you on all levels.
So basically the whole dream is about what I wrote in the first reply. Good news is: you left in your dream!
But in that last bit of your dream you are finding the interesting bits. Instead of driving away like a mad man, tumbling into the ocean (getting overwhelmed) & needing to close the door (while you are already still floating on all the emotions still related to this topic), I think it is suggested to calmly look at this situation bit by bit. A bit calmer, so you can release these emotions that are still tied to this.
You are wanting to get so fast that you are driving of the bridge. A bridge represents the transition, but now you fell into the water (emotions) and have no car. While you were actually planning to start ‘create’(art store) something for yourself/new life path.

So the good news is, that you already are addressing these issues. The dreams are showing you your process, but it seems wise to take it a bit easier on yourself.
Hope this may resonate.
Byee!!!!

EDIT: Lol. Saw your other reply just now. On the house for you of course
Even though if this is a long dream, I think the most valuable information is found in the last bit of your dream The other part is giving you insight in how you still relate to this in current life.
Also, your shadow self, once recognised will turn into your helper. Here her help is still a bit contraproductive (He is sooooo lovely!) while she should of course stamp on his feet with really high heels

PS part 2: I have PayPal + CC in my other shop by the way (just turned into a '42'-wootwoot!) I must consult you before I do these things

posted July 05, 2013 02:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Twirl:
[B]Hi Jelly,

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what on earth??very cheeky gremlins!!