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Topic: Shoes, earrings and train windows
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Emsie
Knowflake Posts: 382
From: Budapest
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 31, 2013 03:43 AM
  
I was quarreling with a man, because he gave my pair of shoes to someone. I was yelling at him in a nasty, angry manner to get them back.Then, I was sitting on a rather full train. I was wearing a pair of golden earrings which were triangle shaped. Later I discovered that one of them was missing and I couldn't find it anywhere. Later, I wrote something on the window of the train. It was something like 'respect' or 'love' - I can't exactly remember... IP: Logged |
Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 1456
From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted July 31, 2013 06:04 AM
Clothes represents parts of how we perceive ourselves/like to be perceived and generally show our sense of self/identity. Seems like you have a tendency to give away/sacrifice you personal power/parts of your identity. Are you giving parts of yourself/identity away to fit in somewhere? Are you trying to conform?
Can you remember what kind of shoes they were?
Shoes make us grounded and give us a feeling of 'being part of the world'. Are you walking in your own shoes or actually that of others? Edit: Jewels and gold also refers to self-value.
The strong feeling I have with this dream is that you demand people value-ing you (possibly in relation to love, especially since you wrote it out on a train window for the world to see) and get angry if they don't, but then you do actually give away your shoes (the boy is you).
Also the losing of the earrings refers to that.
So there seems some confusement going on about why these things happen irl (not feeling valued/respected), while generally I think you should still try to take better care of yourself.
Now, I know we spoke of this in other threads and that you are working on this, but just remember it's Always a process we go through. This just points out that some firming of your base is neccesary.
Or at least that is how I see this dream. IP: Logged |
Emsie
Knowflake Posts: 382
From: Budapest
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 31, 2013 04:44 PM
Actually, I can see clearly what you say.I spent my whole summer trying to ask my 'friends' to go somewhere and spend time together. Every time they either said they were busy, or later they cancelled the meeting with some shallow reasons... After a while I started to feel that my 'value' could be pretty much 'low' if others don't even feel the urge to meet me for at least a coffee. And then I felt hurt, because I always saw these people uploading pictures to FB where they were with someone else and seemingly had a good time. No matter how hard I tried to reach out to anyone now I feel they don't need me. (The shoes were high-heeled first, then transformed into flats...) IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted August 01, 2013 04:29 AM
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Randall
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posted August 02, 2013 12:20 PM
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Twirl
Knowflake Posts: 1456
From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 02, 2013 04:07 PM
Good to know it rings truth. Can imagine it feels hurtful. On the other hand, it also sounds like you just need different friends which match you better Don't let others put a value on you. That power ultimately lies within you The high heels transforming in flats gives a more grounded feel already... Now they just don't need to be given away  quote:
Originally posted by Emsie:
Actually, I can see clearly what you say.I spent my whole summer trying to ask my 'friends' to go somewhere and spend time together. Every time they either said they were busy, or later they cancelled the meeting with some shallow reasons... After a while I started to feel that my 'value' could be pretty much 'low' if others don't even feel the urge to meet me for at least a coffee. And then I felt hurt, because I always saw these people uploading pictures to FB where they were with someone else and seemingly had a good time. No matter how hard I tried to reach out to anyone now I feel they don't need me. (The shoes were high-heeled first, then transformed into flats...)
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Emsie
Knowflake Posts: 382
From: Budapest
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted August 02, 2013 06:30 PM
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Originally posted by Twirl:
Good to know it rings truth. Can imagine it feels hurtful. On the other hand, it also sounds like you just need different friends which match you better Don't let others put a value on you. That power ultimately lies within you The high heels transforming in flats gives a more grounded feel already... Now they just don't need to be given away
I was basically thinking the same. My main problem is that I always know my friends from school, but I know only a few ones from outer sources... And now I decided to make friends the way I've never done it. Weeks ago I randomly asked someone out for a coffee and it turned out that this person was "walking in my shoes" as well. Next week we meet again. IP: Logged |
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