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Topic: A Dream with a Friend
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Sailor Gemini
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From: Magellan Castle, Aphrodite Terra, Venus
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted October 15, 2013 10:54 PM
  
Last night I had this dream...I'm walking to school with my brother and sister when we come up to a crossroad. Standing there is a new friend of mine. What's strange is he's standing in his underwear. He doesn't seem to care, and when I ask about it, he says his girlfriend had spent the night at his place, and when he woke up, she had robbed him of everything he had, which I'm guessing was clothes, jewels, and anything else she might have wanted. So he comes with us to pay her back, and when we get there, the school is empty and it's just the four of us with some of my brother's friends. We're all trying to cheer him up, and one of the friends says, "why don't you flirt with some girl the next time you see her?" and then my sister says, "why don't you flirt with another guy the next time you see her?" She put emphasis on the word 'guy', and as soon as she said it, I thought of flirting with him. The bell rings, we go to class, then we go home. I don't remember much about the last part, but we were in a van. Can anyone help me with this? ------------------
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Twirl
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From: Europe
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted October 18, 2013 03:02 PM
Are you a girl Gemini?IP: Logged |
Sailor Gemini
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From: Magellan Castle, Aphrodite Terra, Venus
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posted October 18, 2013 07:06 PM
I'm male. And bi. With two spirits. It gets complicated. Does that have anything to do with it?------------------
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Twirl
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posted October 19, 2013 06:01 AM
Yes, it does.
I'll have to have a look later, but I can see some confusement going on with the guy-girl thing in your dream.
Also, dreaming of a male in your dream when you are a guy means it relates to you (and often to a shadow part). If you are a guy and dream of a girl it relates to the more feminine qualities you own. IP: Logged |
Twirl
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posted October 20, 2013 01:50 PM
Is evrything out in the open with everyone about you being bi?
Or were there some people less open-minded about it?
In general your dream is about learning (school)/lessons of life. And you are outside & with a group of people. So it's about how you feel/are in the outside world & what you feel about society.
Now the guy in his underwear and someone stealing his stuff (= about value of self + identity). That's why I think this is about being bi-sexual.
In general you seem okay with that (no probelm being 'exposed' - underwear). Yet something isn't quite right, because something gets stolen (something of value taken away).
How does that sound to you so far? IP: Logged |
Sailor Gemini
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From: Magellan Castle, Aphrodite Terra, Venus
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted October 20, 2013 09:46 PM
That seems right. I'm pretty much always open about it, it's pretty obvious I'm not straight, but I would assume most people think I'm gay. I'm not entirely positive, but I think only one person either really doesn't get me, or is very frightened. As for the society thing, I really feel indifferent to it.------------------
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Ra
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From: Kentucky
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posted October 21, 2013 04:24 AM
I completely agree with Twirl.  IP: Logged |
Sailor Gemini
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From: Magellan Castle, Aphrodite Terra, Venus
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posted October 21, 2013 07:01 PM
Okay, so then what about the guy being a friend of mine? Surely that has some significance?------------------
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Twirl
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posted October 22, 2013 03:33 AM
Yes.
Try to see how you see him. It says he has some qualities and/or approach to life that may be helpful in your own life. The group in your case then isn't society, but relates to your 'social circle'. IP: Logged |
Sailor Gemini
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From: Magellan Castle, Aphrodite Terra, Venus
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 03:51 PM
Funny you should mention that...
I'm asking myself the same question. I haven't really been around him too much, but I can say I'm rather... interested in him. And by social circle, do you mean just friends?------------------
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Twirl
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posted October 22, 2013 04:45 PM
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Originally posted by Sailor Gemini:
Funny you should mention that...
I'm asking myself the same question. I haven't really been around him too much, but I can say I'm rather... interested in him. And by social circle, do you mean just friends?
Lol. So maybe the answer is found in how you felt in your dream when you thought: maybe I should flirt with him...
Except the attraction in real life... What do you think of him. What do you admire? Is most outstanding?
Or is it the fact you actually want to put yourself more out on the love market? Yeah, I mean friends & such... IP: Logged |
Sailor Gemini
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From: Magellan Castle, Aphrodite Terra, Venus
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posted October 22, 2013 07:02 PM
Um... Kind of both. I'm interested in him, and I've noticed he likes to play with people's heads. I'm kind of drawn to that, and I really don't know how else to put it, but I've been wanting to find a partner.As for friends, I don't have a whole lot of friends. ------------------
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Regulus18
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From: Washington, D.C.
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted October 27, 2013 02:22 PM
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Originally posted by Sailor Gemini:
Um... Kind of both. I'm interested in him, and I've noticed he likes to play with people's heads. I'm kind of drawn to that, and I really don't know how else to put it, but I've been wanting to find a partner.As for friends, I don't have a whole lot of friends.
Here's what I gather: You like this new guy and you whether or not it has happened yet, you believe this girl friend of his is going to betray him at some point. The dream seems to be incomplete, because there just isn't a lot of background as to the role this guy plays in your life. IP: Logged |
Sailor Gemini
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From: Magellan Castle, Aphrodite Terra, Venus
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted October 27, 2013 07:27 PM
Okay, that would seem reasonable, but as for the girlfriend part, I don't think he's dating.------------------
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