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andstuff
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posted December 01, 2013 05:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for andstuff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyway, my brother mentioned a classmates reunion, so no wonder I had a dream I went to one as well

What was less pleasant is that I dreamt I was really really insulted by my old high school friend. It's an ugly story, but basically it goes like this: we had a mutual friend no.1 (MF1) and mutual friend no.2 (MF2) and she was going out of her way to make them just her friends without them being mine. Like she would really use dirty tricks such as telling MF2 I called her this and that (even though she had been saying much worse things about her), so anyway, as I tried the same on MF1 upon learning what was going on, suddenly I was the lying b*tch whereas she was an innocuous angel. If truth be told, I have never had a flare for foul play, and I basically suffered from not being good enough, bc she was an expert and apparently more convincing despite the fact that she was 20 worse than me in that [unseemly] episode. And MF1 chose her over me as well. Oh, MF2 chose me over her and mad she was I wish I could describe how mad

All of this was like 12 years ago and suddenly I dreamed about her again, her seedy unwashed sweaters, her bad skin and she was shouting at me and calling me all sorts of names. Ok, if truth be told I was trying to insult her back in the dream but I could feel I was losing this awful battle. I was jaded when I woke up.

So what could it be? Is it about me?

I would be happy to return the favour for any help Thanks in advance xx

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posted December 04, 2013 04:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello andstuff

I'm a little confused …

Was the "ugly story" something that happened in real life, or was it a dream from 12 years ago?

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posted December 04, 2013 09:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for andstuff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Ra, thank you for taking a look and replying

My style of writing does tend to be all over the place

Yes, the ugly story did really happen, unfortunately, I used to get really worked up about it

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posted December 09, 2013 04:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You may not "have ever had a flare for foul play", but that hasn't always stopped you from participating, as illustrated by the situation you described. In the dream, your old high school friend is a reflection of an aspect of self, your persona, that you do not like. Some recent memory or situation has brought this back up, and your subconscious is drawing parallels to your past.

Have you been involved in a name calling or insult situation recently? A personality conflict?

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