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From: Hillsboro, OR, USA
Registered: Jan 2013

posted December 07, 2013 10:43 PM            

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So the other night i had such a vivid dream. I walked into my kitchen, where my boyfriend was making something to eat. We were being our regular in love selves, and suddenly I asked him; "do you still love me." He paused, looked me straight in the eye and said, "I don't." I collapsed on the ground sobbing crying; "Please! I can change!"

Did I dream of the future? Or is this a psychological thing in my head? Can anyone help out?

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From: Daytona beach, FL, USA
Registered: Jan 2013

posted December 09, 2013 09:38 PM            

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Sounds like a psychological thing. If you were, as you said, being your usual in love selves and you had to stop and confirm that he loves you It sounds like a part of you may believe he doesn't and you need that reassurance. People usually don't just stop and realize they dont love someone at the slightest reminder, I wouldn't worry too much about the future.

I used to have dreams of my boyfriend cheating on me all the time but it was just me almost trying to believe that he did because I didn't trust him.

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From: Kentucky
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posted December 10, 2013 04:20 AM            

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Hello whitewitch

I very much agree with Leonis Star.

Does he show any sign of not loving you in waking life?

Sometimes a lack of the usual attention one gets can spur such a dream, but it is likely that your subconscious is just playing through a worst-case scenario, much like a parent dreams of the death of a child. It’s a fear which needs to be expressed, so what better place than a dream?

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From: Hillsboro, OR, USA
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posted December 12, 2013 05:40 AM            

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Well, I have had a couple of very bad relationships, I think the thing is, I fear happening what in this one what happened in them, so I guess I need his reassurance a lot that he does love me.

But no he doesn't show any signs of not loving me, he actually is the most doting, loving boyfriend I've had yet.

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From: Saturn next to Charmainec
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posted December 12, 2013 02:10 PM            

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Maybe it's your own insecurities coming out of your subconscious to the surface. Are you afraid you might lose him? I wouldn't worry over it. Sounds like everything is great!

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