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Topic: Dream of a friend cheating on her boyfriend
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Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1112
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 18, 2014 03:54 PM
  
I'm friends with this couple and I'm closer to the guy than I am to the girl. Yesterday, he asked her to marry him, legit. They're basically engaged at age 17 and 16 (crazy, I know). They just told me about it before I slept. Me and my other friends didn't object. It seemed like they were made for each other. They didn't know their families both came from the same town in Italy before they met. I believe they are soulmates.And then I dreamt about the girl cheating on the guy with my other guy friend. I was basically watching and I felt like a spirit--no one can see me and no one can touch me. The other guy asked her for a blowjob and she basically agreed to it. Well, he kind of blackmailed her, I just don't remember how. My friend found out and he was really mad. They got into a fight and the girl was crying really bad. I tried to speak up, but what can I do? I was only an audience. I couldn't remember all the details, but I'm pretty sure it's a warning sign. What does the dream mean? IP: Logged |
Ayelet
Knowflake Posts: 198
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 21, 2014 05:52 PM
Do you have any negative feelings toward the guy friend who is blackmaling the girl in your dream? Do you distrust him?IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1112
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 22, 2014 10:18 PM
Yeah, that kid creeps me out because he hits on me and he's not really my type. But that's about it. Nothing else.IP: Logged |
Ra
Moderator Posts: 937
From: Kentucky
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 23, 2014 04:37 AM
Hello Solar Leo Queen  I don't know that it is a warning sign so much as it is a projection of your own feelings/concerns upon the issue, subconscious as they may be. You may not be able to imagine how this could work if this was your situation. No doubt there are exceptions where it has worked, but 17 is pretty young, and maturity plays a big part in a successful marriage. As an aside, I was engaged to my wife at 17. It didn't work out. We went our separate ways for several years, got back together, re-engaged and married at 24. We were much better prepared on many different levels. This year will mark 19 years. I feel that had we married at 17, we wouldn't be together now. But that's just my own experience. 
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