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Topic: Telling a guy's girlfriend that he cheated on her with you
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Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 1730 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 29, 2014 07:11 AM
I had this dream last night and it all felt so real. At first, I was just looking through J's photos and I saw that he had pictures with his girlfriend. We're kind of over already and that's why I was shocked to have this dream. After seeing the photos, I got really jealous and decided to go message his girlfriend and tell her everything he did with me. I was just so hurt and upset about it. But when I told her about it, she already knew and she started flipping out on me. Then I told her abput how much he complains about her not being there for him (because she lives far) or her not talking to him most of the time. She told me to call her friend, so I did. I think she didn't wanna talk to me, so she made her friend do it. I told her friend everything and she told me she's really upset about everything. She was crying as well. I felt really bad about everything. Then she messaged me herself telling me she's not gonna let me ruin her relationship. My point in telling her the truth about her boyfriend was to let her know he can't be trusted. And yes, at first, my intention was to ruin it for them, but it all changed when I actually talked to her. I even told her he talks to all these girls (which I have no proof of but I told her anyway). And then she called me and she just kept crying on the phone. This dream felt so real to me like it was actually happening. I'm not sure what it means really. I need help please, if someone knows how to interpret.. Thanks. IP: Logged |
Ra Moderator Posts: 1122 From: Kentucky Registered: May 2009
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posted September 02, 2014 07:43 PM
Hello Solar Leo Queen  This is all about you. The dream is a reflection of what is going on within your psyche. There is unfinished emotional business concerning your breakup with J. If not consciously, then at least subconsciously, your mind is searching for answers, for reasons, for explanations, and maybe even for revenge. You feel like you've been duped, taken advantage of, and treated terribly. You feel foolish, hurt, and angry. All of the pain and frustration of the girlfriend in the dream is a reflection of your own. Does that make sense?  IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 1730 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted September 03, 2014 03:13 PM
Yes that does make sense. And hey it actually happened that I told her about it. But it's not exactly the way it did in the dream.IP: Logged |
Ra Moderator Posts: 1122 From: Kentucky Registered: May 2009
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posted September 05, 2014 10:39 AM
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