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Topic: Ex boyfriend and scarring
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SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 1524 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted November 03, 2014 04:11 PM
Hey all and RaI had a dream last night about my ex boyfriend (a not very nice guy) and he appeared in my dream as he had "come back" but he did something to me in the dream. He bit into my left breast and left a deep red scar. I could see he had done this to other women. I have no idea why I am dreaming about him, have not had contact in a long time.... Sparkling IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87 Moderator Posts: 4841 From: Curitiba, Brasil Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 05, 2014 02:57 PM
Maybe some unsolved subjects?? Or your mind is trying to tell you something about what he means for you (do you have fear or anger when you remember him??)... Just a shot, not that good in dream interpretation...IP: Logged |
Ra Moderator Posts: 1408 From: Kentucky Registered: May 2009
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posted November 07, 2014 09:37 AM
Hello Sparkling  Good shot, DaniPepper. That is along the same lines I am thinking. This dream suggests past emotional or psychological harm/damage done to you by him that has left a residual imprint. The scar on your breast could suggest that it has to do with your femininity, self-confidence, nurturing attributes, or something like that and some current issue/situation related to one of these things has brought the "scar" back to the surface, indicating the origin of your present internal conflict. What do you think?  IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 1524 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted November 08, 2014 02:49 PM
Hello both  Wow I think you are both onto something! I wondered, I had job interview ( a tough two stage process last week) and I had this dream on morning of second stage interview which was face to face one. I think it may be to do with my self-worth and my ex really destroyed my personal and sexual confidence , hence I think scarring on breast. I am now involved with a very loving guy who makes me feel wonderful so I think this dream is linked to work and perception of myself. A week later all is much more positive, I got offered the job! So new changes are coming. Sparkling IP: Logged |
Ra Moderator Posts: 1408 From: Kentucky Registered: May 2009
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posted November 19, 2014 04:37 AM
Nice. Thank you for sharing your dream.  IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 1524 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted July 24, 2015 12:41 PM
Hello Ra  I had completely forgotten this dream until this ex contacted me last month as he was going to be back in UK. Well, he persisted in several messages for me to meet him. I finally replied and asked why? he said to hang out. I declined. I did not care about him at all. I in fact. regained my dignity from the way he treated me years ago. Very satisfying! I did not need to meet him to know he has not changed. I protected myself. Sparkling IP: Logged |