posted January 02, 2015 12:40 AM            

To cut a long story I had quite an enjoyable time in a bath with a man with long red hair who was the same age as me.I actually think the man was someone I actually went to school with who was in my class. I had a little bit of a crush on him.I never told him that and I don't think he had picked up the fact I liked him in that way.I did like him but I was never completely ga ga over him nor would I ever allow myself to be completely lose my senses over anyone. I also had enough problems at this point in time being a slightly unstable misfit with Aspergers Syndrome without confirming that I was gay and adding to the problem.I never had any self hatred towards myself or others regarding sexual preferences I just did the smart thing I neither confirmed or denied anything until I found a better time to confirm things.I have always been a very hot and cold person and when I go cold I could chill wine at twenty paces. I have always been and still am capable of detaching from sexual or romantic feelings even if sometimes I can be wild and carefree and get lost in the moment.I imagine he came into my mind because I had thought about him recently.In a way its a shame I can't remember of the dream although I realise nothing would ever happen in reality so at the same I am happy to say it doesn't really matter that I can't remember much of it.The act itself seemed enjoyable and passionate although it felt like the earth moved afterwards I felt sort of disconnected and was happy enough to just admit I had a good time but now its time to move on.

I'm sorry if all that was to much information.If any of this is inappropriate I will sanitize and delete some of the post.

Perhaps this red haired man appeared because I have been inspired by researching some Celtic Gods and and Goddesses,Red haired gods and looking at some pagan men lolI would like to learn more about my roots so perhaps the red haired man is a typical manifestation of this desire.Maybe in my mind it was just the novelty of his red hair.Things like hair colour or race don't phase me as I don't really have favourites. I would say there are nice looking men of all colours and nationalities. I would probably say my 9th house Sun,Venus and Jupiter would probably help me like variety and diversity.

So what can you guys tell me about red haired men and bath tubs in dreams?

posted January 02, 2015 05:07 PM            

Edit

I was trying to think of a witty title for this thread and I thought of this nursery rhyme. That title should have been Rub-a-dub-dub me and a red haired man in a tub.
Although In my hurry I have left out the a.Does that make more sense to you ?I probably should have also but a comma after the Rub-a-dub-dub and wrote me with a capital M.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rub-a-dub-dub

posted January 03, 2015 10:05 AM            

I did not like those situations as well. I always saw them as vultures that circle around and I was the only one who did see it. It was my impression of those days and I was the black sheep of my family. I do not know the circumstances in your life. The only thing I can say about you is that you think and feel. Every time you see or feel bad you make the decision to go the positive way. In your current dream there was a bathtub. There is a negative interpretation of that as well, but you decided to fill it with a positive feeling. O.k. it was a man, but he will not mind.

posted January 04, 2015 04:50 PM            

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Originally posted by GeminiKarat:
AAAAAHHHHHHHHH! That is a rhyme. Thank you very much for the lesson. I always like to learn new things.

I did not like those situations as well. I always saw them as vultures that circle around and I was the only one who did see it. It was my impression of those days and I was the black sheep of my family. I do not know the circumstances in your life. The only thing I can say about you is that you think and feel. Every time you see or feel bad you make the decision to go the positive way. In your current dream there was a bathtub. There is a negative interpretation of that as well, but you decided to fill it with a positive feeling. O.k. it was a man, but he will not mind.

I wish you another bath, if you want to have one.

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posted January 06, 2015 02:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
It's from a nursery rhyme: Rub A Dub Dub, Three Men In A Tub.

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I am very sorry. I did not see it. PantheraLeo did post the rhyme and it describes the dream perfectly. I did not get it. One of the things in my life, that I am not proud of.

posted January 06, 2015 03:23 PM            

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Originally posted by GeminiKarat:
I am very sorry. I did not see it. PantheraLeo did post the rhyme and it describes the dream perfectly. I did not get it. One of the things in my life, that I am not proud of.

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Don't worry about it GeminiKarat

At least if you look on the bright side at least your not the one having the scandalous dreams and posting them on Lindaland lol