posted February 05, 2015 03:09 AM            

It just came to me to share two dreams I've been having these days.
I have no idea whether I should delve deeper into the world of meanings or not, but I'll try to tale these dreams. Just that. Maybe you'll have some insight.

So, the first dream. As far as I remember, there was a rich man, with grey costume, long hair and he was shorter than me. I can't explain this part logically, but he kinda chose me. As his wife.
And I'm like whaaat
No really, I accepted. He drove me to his place, a big luxury house and he let me go in, look at things, just to look around at his palace. And I was moving from room to room, the house was beautiful. And the man was walking behind me, enjoying my amazement and admiring me. I didn't know him at all, but he seem to really be inlove with me. And he was rich, so he kinda got the right to choose a girl she likes, take her to his place, she would evaluate the quality of her future life and accept him or not. But she wouldn't know him at all. That's the logic in my dream. No second thoughts, it's just a dream. And I accepted living with him, having thoughts about how will it be with him, will I fall inlove, will we create a family....Just like that.

And the second dream was the night after that. I dreamed about a known TV host in my country, but that's not the case. He took the alpha man's role as the other guy in previous dream. The details are gone in my memory, but the most important thing is - I was again in some beautifully built house, except for this house was not completely finished, but it was on the shore of the ocean and had a beautiful view from the window. The man said that we would finish building it together if I like. The projection of the house was that you can walk round and round in there. So, I walked, looked at things and so on. And he was looking at me. Admiring me. And the same thoughts came, how will it be with him? Will we find love?

posted February 05, 2015 04:04 PM            

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Originally posted by GeminiKarat:
Please read it as an opinion:
A big house with many rooms points to the growth of the consciousness and to a differentiation of the personality. Such a house often appears in the dream if the dreamer or female dreamer develops automatically only one side of her personality or lives.
The alpha men in the two dreams lead to the question: Where in my life I am ready for more self-assertion?

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Well, thank you for your response. It definitely led me to thinking about it...

posted February 06, 2015 12:31 PM            

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Originally posted by coffeetime:
Well, thank you for your response. It definitely led me to thinking about it...

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Originally posted by coffeetime:
But how can men and self-assertion be related?

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I agree with lilting. In a dream interpretation you work with stereotypes most of the times. It is very good that you think about it and reconnect it to the circumstances in your life. After that the opinion can or cannot resonate with you.

I wish you all the best on you reconnection!

posted February 09, 2015 04:29 AM            

If not along the lines GeminiKarat pointed out, then perhaps these dreams represent compensation for what you lack, or what you desire, in waking life.

Are the "finer things" in the dreams a reflection of your lack or desire for them?

Do you hope to be "chosen" and taken care of?

Are you wondering if you will ever find the right guy, or if he will find you?

Do you feel powerless in your relationship life?

Do you feel incomplete (incomplete house) in your relationship life?

Do you feel confined (spacious houses) or unable to move (able to walk round and round) in areas of your life?