posted May 04, 2015 08:09 AM
IMO, there are three situations:1. you have a channel with someone, you dream about them, they dream about you, or they think about you, it's a mutual interaction. You figure this one out pretty quickly, because you soon find out about it in real life.
I have this with a few people, two male friends and one of my sisters. If we don't talk to each other, or meet each other in real life, we "summon" each other in dreams, we dream about each and soon meet or talk. It happens with people who have a very strong connection and feel mutually about each other.
2. you have premonitory dreams, you dream of someone shortly before meeting them/talking to them in real life; I have this too, and when it happens I know I will see the person very soon, but the other doesn't necessarily know that.
3. you are in love or obsessed or thinking too much of a person/topic, so you dream about them, but they don't feel it, because you dream is attached to their image as you want them to be rather than what they feel and how they are. It's an outlet.
This happens a lot when people separate, when one of them leaves the other, one of the most traumatic experiences we are unfortunately still compelled to feel as humans
In this case, the abandoned person can dream of the other, sometimes for a long time, in the attempt of being with them, psychologically. The other one may feel the other's longing, but usually they don't, because most of times when people separate by leaving someone at their will, they experience an instinctive defensive "blank" of the other person, they don't think about them anymore, sometimes to an extreme extent (as if they don't even exist anymore)right after the separation, it's an instinctive mechanism of moving on without feeling guilty, in the initial stages.
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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...
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