posted June 24, 2015 06:05 AM            

Yesterday I received information which suggested that my ex was back with his ex AGAIN. I would say that I'm 60% ok with this, not as distraught as the first time; but still 20% sad and 20% angry. Unsurprisingly, I had a dream about him.

In the dream, I was at a wedding of a former flame. My former flame was marrying girlfriend. (This is happening in life). I ended up attending (this is not happening in real life) and just as the wedding was about to start, I walk around the seating area. The "aisle" was rectangular and grey, but went around the room in a square shape. As I got half way down the first side, I saw my ex boyfriend's name on a board and an arrow pointing towards the left. I didn't notice, the board at first, but when I did... I did a double take. I then looked to the left and managed to catch his eye. He was talking to an older man who was slightly balding. I was gobsmacked. He definitely was not supposed to be there! I remember feeling like I had so much to say, but nothing to say at the same time. I open my mouth to speak but closed it again and carried on walking.

He ended up cutting off the conversation and chasing after me. When he caught up he asked me how I was... I was so caught off guard.

I can't remember what happened after that, but I remember talking to my friends/bridesmaid and they said that he ended up there because he had to give someone invites to the wedding a ride to the venue. They mentioned he brought his kids with him, but I remember quickly saying that they weren't his kids... They were his younger relatives.

Then I woke up!

posted June 25, 2015 01:21 PM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
It was just all too much for me and mentally it was just the straw that broke the camel's back.

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… and you doing the right thing.

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Originally posted by ikja:
….. I open my mouth to speak but closed it again and carried on walking.

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posted June 25, 2015 11:30 PM            

I agree with GeminiKarat.

The information you give about the relationship is very helpful and makes the meaning of the dream pretty clear. Very simply, the dream is a reflection of your mental/emotional state as pertains to connections with the ex, with whom, or about whom, there is still unfinished emotional business.

The setting clearly shows the connection (former flame marrying girlfriend/arrow pointing to ex), and your reactions/feelings clearly indicate/reflect the feelings that still exist, the pain and confusion that remain open as a wound upon your psyche (he was not supposed to be there/caught off guard/gobsmacked/want to speak but can't).

Hang in there.