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k8362
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posted August 31, 2015 03:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for k8362     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
About a week ago, I dreamed about the man I'm interested in in real life. I was staying at a house with some friends and he was there. He was ignoring me throughout the dream (which he appears to be doing in real life as well). His sister mentioned that he might be going to Santa Fe, in which case she would be around from 5-7 pm. Later we were at an outdoor event. He was still ignoring me there. I finally became discouraged about him ignoring me and decided to leave, but first I placed several stones in a small bag that I took with me. Then I walked through a train depot, crossing over several railroad tracks. I think I woke up before I reached the house where we were staying, but I think my plan had been to pack up my things and leave for good.

Then last night I dreamed of the same man. He told me he is getting married! I don't remember anything else about the dream.

I've had many dreams that I think have something to do with this man, but it's very rare that he actually shows up in my dreams, so it's strange to me that he's showing up all of the sudden. I think I've only had one other dream that he was actually in, almost a year ago. He was pregnant with his girlfriend's baby in that dream.

Any thoughts on why two dreams about him in the same week? And what do these dreams mean? I do think the train tracks might symbolize me going against the path that others (my family) think I should be taking (this has been a common theme in several dreams). And the stones maybe are about feeling like I'm carrying a burden (my feelings for him), although the bag was small, not heavy. I'm not sure. What could it mean that he was telling me he's getting married?

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Ra
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posted September 01, 2015 04:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello k8362

This dream suggests that your feelings for this man, and his ignoring of you, is weighing you down mentally/emotionally (put stones in bag) and you are looking for some direction in the situation(train depot/crossing tracks).

Make any sense?

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GeminiKarat
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posted September 01, 2015 07:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GeminiKarat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I will second Ra´s opinion on that.
As I do like astrology too, you may find a answer here as well.
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k8362
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posted September 11, 2015 10:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for k8362     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ra:
Hello k8362

This dream suggests that your feelings for this man, and his ignoring of you, is weighing you down mentally/emotionally (put stones in bag) and you are looking for some direction in the situation(train depot/crossing tracks).

Make any sense?


That does make sense, Ra. I've definitely been looking for direction on what, if anything, to do about the situation. What about the other dream where he told me he was getting married? Any thoughts on what that means?

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angel4845
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posted September 13, 2015 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
okay so i know this may sound really disappointing but I'm sorry, I'm just being brutally honest with what my intuition says about your dream and my own interpretation of it and here it is.

i think the dream where he told you he was getting married means that he has an interest towards you but feels he can not due to the fact that he has his priorities either romantically or career wise or spiritually focused more somewhere else and i also am seeing that he is happy in regards to the goals he has chosen to focus on as marriage does represent happiness and some form of commitment and I'm also seeing that he feels comfortable with you and would appreciate your support despite that he is unable to go forward with you romantically but am seeing he wants to see you in another light.

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k8362
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posted September 15, 2015 08:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for k8362     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by angel4845:
okay so i know this may sound really disappointing but I'm sorry, I'm just being brutally honest with what my intuition says about your dream and my own interpretation of it and here it is.

i think the dream where he told you he was getting married means that he has an interest towards you but feels he can not due to the fact that he has his priorities either romantically or career wise or spiritually focused more somewhere else and i also am seeing that he is happy in regards to the goals he has chosen to focus on as marriage does represent happiness and some form of commitment and I'm also seeing that he feels comfortable with you and would appreciate your support despite that he is unable to go forward with you romantically but am seeing he wants to see you in another light.


Thanks, angel4845. I do appreciate your thoughts. In a way, I can see what you're saying. But I'm not sure it totally resonates with me. Maybe I'm just a little stubborn (okay, very), but I still feel like there is a romantic future with this man. Every psychic, tarot reader, etc. has given me the same feedback - that the timing may not be right just yet, but that there is something there to hold on to. Reading your response did remind me of a detail of the dream I had forgotten. He didn't sound happy when he told me he was getting married. He sounded sad.

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posted September 15, 2015 11:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for angel4845     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by k8362:
Thanks, angel4845. I do appreciate your thoughts. In a way, I can see what you're saying. But I'm not sure it totally resonates with me. Maybe I'm just a little stubborn (okay, very), but I still feel like there is a romantic future with this man. Every psychic, tarot reader, etc. has given me the same feedback - that the timing may not be right just yet, but that there is something there to hold on to. Reading your response did remind me of a detail of the dream I had forgotten. He didn't sound happy when he told me he was getting married. He sounded sad.

Oh I see then if he sounded sad and unhappy when he told you this. Could mean to me that he is making choices and making other priorities that he does not want to make and feels unhappy about. He doesn't wanna get married he doesn't want to make some form of commitment or priority in his reality. I think RIGHT NOW presently he feels stuck and this could CHANGE. Please do take this dream of what's happening in the present cause anything can change and I have no idea if you two will make up in future as this dream that you had with him is telling me only things that are happening PRESENTLY.

I do feel like he has comfortig feelings for you since he was sad with the choices HES making in his life right now and was Able to reveal his feelings and certain things he is making in the dream and hopefully he realized that these choices he's making is only bringing him unhappiness which could lead him to change in the future.

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k8362
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posted September 15, 2015 01:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for k8362     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by angel4845:
Oh I see then if he sounded sad and unhappy when he told you this. Could mean to me that he is making choices and making other priorities that he does not want to make and feels unhappy about. He doesn't wanna get married he doesn't want to make some form of commitment or priority in his reality. I think RIGHT NOW presently he feels stuck and this could CHANGE. Please do take this dream of what's happening in the present cause anything can change and I have no idea if you two will make up in future as this dream that you had with him is telling me only things that are happening PRESENTLY.

I do feel like he has comfortig feelings for you since he was sad with the choices HES making in his life right now and was Able to reveal his feelings and certain things he is making in the dream and hopefully he realized that these choices he's making is only bringing him unhappiness which could lead him to change in the future.


Thanks. That does resonate - that he may feel stuck right now. I think it's very likely that he is going through a lot now. I got a psychic reading earlier this year that said he was going through some major life path changes. And I went to a different psychic a couple weeks ago. She asked me to think of a question (and not tell her what it was) - I wanted to know if the intense sadness/grief I sometimes feel, which sometimes seems to be coming from left field, is because I'm feeling his sadness and grief. She came back with a very strong yes. She's been very accurate about everything else (she even predicted that my mom would be hospitalized for heart problems, and my mom had a heart attack a little over a week ago - she's doing okay), so as weird as it is for me to believe that I'm feeling someone else's pain from hundreds of miles away, I kind of believe it.

It makes me happy to think he has comforting feelings toward me.

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