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Topic: Three dreams of the same guy
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ladygagarin
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posted September 03, 2015 04:59 AM
  
I always have weird dreams, it's entertaining, but I don't usually get confused by them. In the past two months though, I had three dreams of this guy I've been chatting with since July. We haven't met in person, might never will. For some reason he is often on my mind, and these dreams don't really help me getting him out of my head.So, dream one. I had this while on vacation in Germany. In the dream, I took off my shirt to show him the sunburn I got (real thing). He unclasped my bra, we started to make out. He looked surprised when I kissed him.
And I was really surprised to have this dream in the first place, I felt so strange after waking up, because it was so intense. Dream two, last week. In the dream my mother, me and someone else I can't remember went into an underwater world. We could walk on the seabed and breathe normally like it was no big deal. We were looking for a house I could live in (also a real thing, I was searching for a new flat irl). Then he shows up with a bunch of other people, smiling, looking real smug. I sense a bit of hostility. Anyways, we hug, which again turns into kissing. Dream three, last night. I am visiting someone in their house. He is there too, and glancing at me like he is surpised to see me. More people come in to the house, we lose sight of each other. I am enjoying this party or whatever we are having, when he shows up next to me. I want to talk, he says, takes my hand and guides me to the kitchen which is empty. I thought you were not interested, he asks and I just laugh at him, because he had no reason to think so. And that is where the dream ends. Nice dreams, but it's annoying, because I am trying to be rational and not expect anything from this guy. What do you think? Is there a way to stop dreaming about him? EDIT: Forgot to add, the surroundings in the dreams are always dark. Like, a lot of shadows. The main colors are brown, yellow and blue for the underwater dream. IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat
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posted September 03, 2015 03:27 PM
 I have time tomorrow and will post my opinion then! IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat
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posted September 04, 2015 03:55 PM
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Originally posted by ladygagarin:
Nice dreams, but it's annoying, because I am trying to be rational and not expect anything from this guy. What do you think? Is there a way to stop dreaming about him?
I only had that experience with one person. It took me over a year to disconnect.Please read it as an opinion:
The colour black can be associated with the unconsciousness. Water is associated with emotions. The colour brown can be associated with manifestation, yellow with spiritual reality and blue with hope.
Those dreams can indicate a reflection of a “relationship”. IP: Logged |
ladygagarin
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posted September 04, 2015 04:37 PM
Thank you very much for the reply!
Though I am still kinda confused. This guy and I don't know each other that much, why is there a connection?IP: Logged |
ladygagarin
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posted September 04, 2015 04:39 PM
Thank you very much for the reply!
Though I am still kinda confused. This guy and I don't know each other that much, why is there a connection?IP: Logged |
ladygagarin
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posted September 05, 2015 03:36 AM
Well, I had another dream.
I was at home, with my other family members and him. I was in the room which in real life is my father's room, putting on glittery makeup. But I was still in my pyjamas. Actually, everyone was still in pyjamas. And the guy was sleeping in the next room. I was thinking about how to be ready by the time he wakes up.
So, I went out to the dining room to speak with my mom, when she looks away and says in a cheery voice: Oh, he woke up!
And I panicked, so I tried to hide by jumping in the freezer. Which worked, he walked away towards another part of the house and then I went to the bathroom and took a shower.
After this, the whole group including me went outside to eat in the garden. I remember floating above the table (whenever I fly or float in my dreams, everyone takes it casually) and making a joke about some movie, which everyone found hilarious, especially the guy. And I think this is when the other girl showed up.
I started walking back, the guy too. We talked about something, then he hugged me. Then this girl comes up, and starts flirting with him like mad and they almost kiss, right in front of me. So of course I got angry. I ran back to the house, locked the front door, went to my own room and locked that one too. The key had a red paper thing hanging on it. And three little gray kittens appeared in my room.
Meanwhile the rest of the group was shouting outside to let them into the house.
I was still very angry, so I went outside through the window and started yelling at the girl. We started to fight, and she revealed that she is actually an evil robot. I had to shoot her in the chest many times to destroy her.
But she survived somehow, as my dream showed her on a spaceship giving an interview to some guy about how many votes she got for... something political related thing. And she was bald.IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat
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From: Austria
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted September 05, 2015 04:03 AM
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Originally posted by ladygagarin:
... why is there a connection?
I used astrology and a reading to find an answer. I work today and will have a look at your dream tomorrow. IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted September 06, 2015 01:30 PM
Welcome to Astral Realms, ladygagarin  I will also have a look at your dreams as soon as I get the chance. It will be a few days. Maybe GeminiKarat will nail it down before then.  IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat
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From: Austria
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted September 06, 2015 03:20 PM
Please read it as an opinion:
This dream indicates the reprocessing (=pyjama,freezer,key) of an union(=kiss).
As you have stated that there is no existing relationship with this guy. May I ask: Did you have a relationship with a guy that has similar characteristics as this guy in your dream?IP: Logged |
ladygagarin
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posted September 06, 2015 03:50 PM
Similar characteristics? Hmm.
Well there was one guy I dated when I was 17, 7 years ago. I think he was also a Scorpio, like this guy now, but I am not sure because I don't remember his birthday. Also that relationship was a real bummer, because he was not over his ex and dumped me.
This guy and me talked about our breakups. I assume he is still upset about his last relationship, which I totally understand, since my long term relationship ended just in May.
I think these are all the similarities I can find.IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat
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posted September 07, 2015 03:13 PM
I am sorry that I could not help you to find a propper connection  Nevertheless I wish you to find one!  IP: Logged |
ladygagarin
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posted September 07, 2015 03:44 PM
Thank you very much GeminiKarat! IP: Logged |
Ra
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From: Kentucky
Registered: May 2009
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posted September 09, 2015 04:41 AM
Dream one is a reflection of exposing/revealing yourself in some way to the on-line guy. It also may express a desire for a little intimacy.Dream two suggests a "deeper" level of activity within your unconscious awareness. It could suggest that you are unconsciously searching your mind/emotions for his "place" within you. It is a sub/unconscious exploration of why/how he connects with you, and could point to a possible confliction within yourself (sense hostility but still hug/kiss). Dream three suggests that there may be some concern/issue about communications, understanding, and/or self-esteem/self-confidence. In the dream, he may be the one asking about your apparent lack of interest, but this is likely a reflection of your own doubts and inner questioning. The last dream seems to reflect inner conflict you have about this "relationship", and perhaps relationships in general at this time in your life. On the one hand, you are somewhat hopeful and excited about the prospect (thinking about how to be ready), but on the other hand you are hesitant to fully "awaken" your emotional self to the situation (wearing pajamas/jump in freezer). It could be suggested that you need to "cleanse" this reaction/attitude before any real progress can be made (take shower). The robot woman could be a reflection of your own "programmed" response to the relationship situation, perhaps any possible romantic relationship at this point, resulting from your recent break-up. She symbolizes all that could go wrong, your fears about getting emotionally involved right now. Do you "automatically" fear the worst? It could be suggested that intense emotions (red key) are causing you to withdraw mentally/emotionally (lock yourself in room) keeping your active (three) feminine instinctual energies from growing (kittens) and/or expressing (grey). Or something like that. What do you think?
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ladygagarin
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posted September 09, 2015 06:05 AM
Wow! This does make a lot of sense!I had this thing of going back and forth between being interested and giving up on him. We barely talk these days so yeah, communication is bad. I did ask myself a couple of times, why did I even bother trying to get his attention? Do I even need this?
I went on a date with another guy and though it was pretty good, my decision was to call quits, because I don't feel like I want to open up emotionally and risk another heartbreak. Yeah, getting dumped after six years didn't make a positive effect on how I view relationships. Cuddling and kissing is fun, but the good things eventually fade out. Thanks, Ra! IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat
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From: Austria
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posted September 09, 2015 02:47 PM
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Ra
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From: Kentucky
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posted September 10, 2015 11:17 PM
"Cuddling and kissing is fun, but the good things eventually fade out."That is precisely what these dreams are about ... a fear of the worst, when it comes right down to it. You have been hurt. "... good things eventually fade out." Do you really believe that? After being in a six year relationship, you know that the good things don't simply fade out, they change. The good things are always there … but you have been hurt and you are still processing this experience on many levels. Thank you for sharing your dream. IP: Logged | |
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