posted September 13, 2015 02:17 PM            

anyways the dream took place in my house, in my kitchen, i walked in the kitchen and noticed his wet clothes folded on the kitchen table and hanging around me and was shocked to his clothes were drying in my own kitchen, i thought (dear god why are his clothes here!). he also has more clothes washing in my washing machine. i saw his white clothes mixed with his dark clothes. his coat was hanging to dry and his pants and shirts folded but were still wet.

just want to also mention that my own kitchen to me symbolizes a place to sit down eat comfrotably and exchange warm bonding but its also a place of argument and resentment and annoyance due to the fact that i have argued many times with my father in the kitchen and often annoyed and irrupted by the presence of my father almost like i wish he wasn't there in the kitchen because of much arguments in the past with him.

what would your thoughts or insight be of this?

posted September 22, 2015 04:22 AM            

Yes, residual feelings are very natural, which is what this dream is probably about.

This dream could be saying that your crush on him is mostly finished (laundry clean/folded/finished) but that there are still feelings/emotions left to "dry out" (wet=water=emotional energy). The thoughts/feelings you sometimes have about the old crush can be "mixed up" or confusing (whites and darks mixed) and may not be as "finished" as you think or want (clothes in washing machine).

There are also hints of a certain amount of inner conflict (good and bad associations with the kitchen) perhaps having to do with your feelings or dynamics with guys and the relationship with your father.

What do you think?

posted September 22, 2015 11:27 AM            

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Originally posted by GeminiKarat:
Please read it as an opinion:
This dream can indicate the draining (=clothes on the kitchen table) of a nurturing aspect(=kitchen) as well as some secrets(=wet coat).

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thanks Geminikarat this was very helpful of you and yes i do feel there are some secrets when i dreamed of his coat.

posted September 22, 2015 11:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Ra:
Hello angel

Yes, residual feelings are very natural, which is what this dream is probably about.

This dream could be saying that your crush on him is mostly finished (laundry clean/folded/finished) but that there are still feelings/emotions left to "dry out" (wet=water=emotional energy). The thoughts/feelings you sometimes have about the old crush can be "mixed up" or confusing (whites and darks mixed) and may not be as "finished" as you think or want (clothes in washing machine).

There are also hints of a certain amount of inner conflict (good and bad associations with the kitchen) perhaps having to do with your feelings or dynamics with guys and the relationship with your father.

What do you think?

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i certinaly agree with you Ra, this was VERY accurate and was very helpful! yes inner conflicts are there which could explain why i feel as though i can not trust him due to the kitchen resembling to me a warm place to eat and bond but also of annoyance and irration of my father's presence. Thank you so much