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Topic: Pushing Girl Out Of Car
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hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10466 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 30, 2015 11:03 AM
I hate not remembering the whole dream, but this guy I really liked a year ago was in it and dating this ugly girl. We all had a class of some kind together at night and they would be planning it in class although doing it discreetly (like talking about appointments, stuff that didn't sound suspicious) but I knew what they were doing. I then remember we're sitting in a green car and she was explaining stuff about what they do, and in the driver's seat. He was on the other side of me. I don't remember if I was in the car or not, but there were other people around and what kept repeating was me continuously dragging her out of the driver's seat of the car (which was stationary). She continued telling me stuff and it was like it didn't phase her that I kept throwing her out of the car. I do remember she kept fidgeting with her nails while she was talking to me. I remember feeling frustrated and annoyed and "over it" when I pulled her out of the car, and felt much better when I was in the driver's seat. Car dreams are recurring for me so I'm familiar with the concept that they are about taking control of your own life and whatnot, especially since I ended up being in the driver's seat. Any help would be appreciated! I haven't dreamt about that guy in a long time. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10466 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 02, 2015 07:01 PM
OH by "planning it" I mean they were selling marijuana together. Forgot a key element in the dream, oops  IP: Logged |
Ayelet Knowflake Posts: 1118 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 02, 2015 08:46 PM
Hi Hannaramaa, I think this may be a dream about control in a relationship. You don't want the other girl to sit in the driver's seat, to have the control of what's happening. Perhaps you want to be in the driver's seat yourself, even if you don't intend to sell marijuana. The car is green; could it stand for envy? The girl is ugly, what may help you not to be jealous of her. Or perhaps she symbolises an ugly aspect you become aware of in that guy's personality. They are "planning it" at night, they are doing secretly something forbidden. Have you ever felt this guy is like a drug, addictive and dangerous in a way, to you or to someone else? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10466 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 03, 2015 06:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ayelet: Hi Hannaramaa,Have you ever felt this guy is like a drug, addictive and dangerous in a way, to you or to someone else?
I felt strongly for him but not so much now, a lot has changed. He smokes marijuana though and drinks a lot. Hmmm now that I think of it marijuana is also green, so perhaps the color is a main theme here too. I just looked up the color green and the site i'm on says it is in charge of the heart chakra. Moreso it says sometimes dreaming of the color green means we can transfer knowledge by unorthodox means. Now, I latch onto this because I believe him and I have some kind of telepathic connection. When I broke up with him a long long time ago I really thought I'd never hear from again, but I wanted to hear from him. During the 6 months we didn't speak I did my healing and continuously thought about how I at least hoped he was getting healthy, because the level of his unhealthiness scared me and I cared about him as a person. Well, 6 months later he texted me and come to find out he had lost a LOT of weight and was eating healthier. It was weird. Anyway, yes control resonates. The girl was anxious in the dream and nervous. I kept pushing her out and when I did I wasn't even afraid. I think the two opposing natures mean something but I'm not sure what, or what the guy's role in my dream is. Interesting take Ayelet
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Ayelet Knowflake Posts: 1118 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 03, 2015 01:46 PM
Thank you, these were mare suggestions, there is no one who knows better than dreamer.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10466 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 07, 2015 06:45 PM
Just wanted to note that I think that guy I had a dream about and the girl broke up last night / today / recently!IP: Logged |
Ayelet Knowflake Posts: 1118 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 08, 2015 11:51 AM
Oh, that's an actual girl??IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10466 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 08, 2015 12:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ayelet: Oh, that's an actual girl??
In my dream it wasn't the actual girl, no, but he is dating someone in real life. They made up though... -_- I was really thinking my dream was a premonition for a second! IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10466 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 11, 2015 10:33 AM
Bump... any other ideas?IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat Moderator Posts: 1512 From: Austria Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 11, 2015 03:55 PM
Thank you very much for bumping! I will do your dream tomorrow.IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat Moderator Posts: 1512 From: Austria Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 12, 2015 04:02 PM
I have read through your post. Ayelet did a great job. I could add that marijuana is a healing plant as well. That could be a business for the both of you. Green can be associated with manifestation and according to your dream you did not want (=drag her out) the relationship(=car) to exist(=green).
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hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10466 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 14, 2015 02:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by GeminiKarat: I have read through your post. Ayelet did a great job. I could add that marijuana is a healing plant as well. That could be a business for the both of you. Green can be associated with manifestation and according to your dream you did not want (=drag her out) the relationship(=car) to exist(=green).
true, i kept waiting for them to break up! (irL) I texted him today and he didn't do anything. Now that I did that I feel like I can finally be at peace with being done-done, and the mousy girl in that dream that I dragged out of the car was symbolic for my fear of texting him. The green color definitely meant healing and him not doing anything was indicative of his real life reaction to me taking control (sitting in the driver's seat). Dreams are so cool! Thanks for your help Ayelett and Gemini  IP: Logged |