posted October 14, 2015 04:15 AM            

Last night I dreamt that I had given birth to a baby boy. The dream didn't feature the birth of this baby boy, instead it had me interacting with my son who was about 2/3 years old. One of the key points of the dream was that I didn't know what to call my son. The names Ryan and Jonathan were the options. In the dream, I didn't like Jonathan because I didn't like the way that it shortened to Jon or Jonny (I don't like these names in real life!). So, I was swayed towards calling my son Ryan. When it came to his middle name, I picked something ethnic and then, when it came to his surname... I had problems!!!!

I wanted to go with a surname beginning with B. In real life, this is the surname of someone I used to see but we don't talk anymore (this is not a pressing problem for me in real life). However, I felt like I couldn't give my son this name because of the fact that me and this person don't communicate.

With that said, I remember there was a point in the dream where it was like I had to go back through my texts to see if the guy whose surname begins with B told me that I had permission to use it, at the time I told him I was pregnant with my son - our son?

The problem was, when I went to look at the text, I was reminded that I didn't know for sure that he was the father of my child at the time I was pregnant. I think it was because I had been with my ex (true in real life). Therefore, the situation had been left hanging before I gave birth.

Therefore, it was the case that there were potentially two fathers and so, this meant getting a DNA test. However, I didn't want to do this because for some reason I was scared. Even when I made steps towards getting a test in the dream, it ended up being a blood DNA test and this was off putting because giving blood scares me (true in real life).

What I found funny was the fact that when I spoke to my friend about the fact that I wanted to put a father on my son's birth certificate, but didn't know who I should put down... He said that he didn't mind giving my son his surname; because regardless of who the father was, he was going to be around anyway and wanted to be a father figure.

In real life, I have had romantic feelings for my friend which have not been reciprocated. So, now that I am conscious, I think this is quite strange!!!

What a crazy little dream!

posted October 15, 2015 04:14 AM            

I think this dream reflects uncertainty or confusion about your feelings for romantic interests, both past and present, and your wish for the friend to step up and show some interest in you.

posted October 19, 2015 05:55 AM            

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Originally posted by GeminiKarat:
Please read it as an opinion:
A baby in a dream can mean the unaware longing for a happy-go-lucky childhood, security and something new.
This dream indicates a new approach(=baby) towards the definition of men(=DNA test).
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posted October 20, 2015 10:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Ra:
Hello ikja

I think this dream reflects uncertainty or confusion about your feelings for romantic interests, both past and present, and your wish for the friend to step up and show some interest in you.

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Ra ❤️

Long time, no read!
I hope you are well dear.

Thank you for interpreting my dream for me. Ignore the fact that it's taken me so long to get back to you. I only like to respond to people who respond to me when I completely focused! So, please forgive me xxx

I think you're right to an extent. I am confused, I've had sooo many feelings about my ex and someone I like over the last few days. I can't believe I'm still processing and accepting things 2/3 years later.
All in all, I thought the father of my children would be someone that I had known for YEARS and was very good friends with; but now I'm not so sure. I wouldn't say that life isn't what I expected right now, I just think it's not as I hoped and that's abit sad.

Damn Saturn transiting my 7th!

Thank you for your help xx

posted October 20, 2015 05:59 PM            

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Originally posted by GeminiKarat:
You are welcome.

I wish you the best boyfriend everrrrrrrrrrr!

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